Fiancé is a lovely happy-go-lucky, easy type of man - he sees the bright side of everything.
He's been working in a new job since July. He was initially very excited, but by the time he started, they'd changed his job from being client-facing to being an internal technical team member. Not his strong point, but he's been learning it. Something happened this week and he came home and said he thinks it's over, and he won't pass probation. He doesn't understand it enough and I know he's hating it. He's also 80 minutes away from work, so he's commuting for 2 hours 20 a day, which is tiring him out and flaring up a minor disability that he has.
He didn't sleep at all on Tuesday, and said he'd stick it out for a year because of his CV. By Wednesday he wasn't really eating either, and he only slept last night because he was so shattered that he couldn't stay awake. I still can't get him to eat much. He keeps apologising to me. He called me from outside work this morning to say he'll try and make it to the next payday. I keep trying to reassure him that we'll be okay somehow.
I'm worried about his mental health.
I had a work-induced breakdown in January (I have bipolar). We agreed that I'd put the small settlement I got into starting my own business, which I'm doing, and eventually maybe he'd be able to come work with me. We have worked together before and it generally goes well. But we're not there yet, and I'm not sure whether I should be going to find a stable job to try and give him some more flexibility... my industry has been a bit torn by Brexit, though. I could try and make more through my business, but I'm still in the early stages and right now, I've got little done today because I'm worried about him.
Is there anything else I could do? I've got a horrendous chest and throat infection and I can't think straight, but I'm so worried.