Kids, clothes, should I talk to teacher?

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DD(7) was quite upset after school. Turns out one of the other kids pulled down her leggings and pants in the changing rooms when they were getting changed after P.E. I asked if DD had told the teacher, she said yes but that the teacher hadn't told the other girl off (which also upset her) Child in question is one of the young children (6/7) who've just moved up into the mixed class.

Should I call the teacher tomorrow and ask what happened and explain how upset DD was or leave it?

I would definitely call and speak to the teacher.

No harm in asking what happened. I wouldn’t go in guns blazing. She may have been told off privately.

Definitely worth finding out what happened. Whichever child did this needs to know that it's never appropriate to pull someone's pants down, no matter what the intention.

FWIW it's the kind of thing me and my mates would have found very funny at that age.

Definitely tell school! This is not acceptable behaviour and will be breaching whatever childspeak class and school rules are in place about respecting others, being kind, etc.

Your DD is entitled to feel safe at school and this needs to be nipped in the bud.

I think you should speak to the teacher. At 6 and 7 they are old enough to know that this is wrong and that your daughter would likely be upset and embarrassed. I would want to make sure the other child had been spoken to and let the teacher know how upset your daughter is.

I hope your daughter is ok.

She may have been told off privately.

This is what I said to DD as she was certain teacher didn't care and hadn't spoken to the other girl about it.