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Being sent to Coventry

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Muddlingalongalone · 09/09/2019 20:04

Currently reading Malory Towers with dd1 (8).
Apparently her teacher doesn't know the phrase "Being sent to Coventry"
He is very young. 1-2 yrs post NQT but even so I was surprised.
Do you know what it means?
What other phrases are "old fashioned" now?

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Muddlingalongalone · 09/09/2019 20:29

I definitely learnt it from Blyton too - will do a poll at work tomorrow to see whether it's a generational thing.
We have an office in Coventry, so I think about it regularly.

Slightly different but similar confusion at work was let's go to the pub for POETS day.

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MayFayner · 09/09/2019 20:32

I remember it from Blyton but also vaguely from learning the origins of the phrase in school.

“Gone to see a man about a dog” is that just “gone on a non-specific errand”? Or does it have a set meaning? I was never fully sure of that one.

“Free gratis and for nothing” and AWOL are not old fashioned, are they? Blush

BetterAlone · 09/09/2019 20:35

I used the phrase "all quiet on the Western Front" at work......blank stares from all the under-30s 😂😂

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BetterAlone · 09/09/2019 20:36

My dad used gone to see a man about a dog as code for gone to the pub.

MillieMoodle · 09/09/2019 20:37

I'm 35 and know what it means, also from Enid Blyton books.

POETS day - piss off early tomorrow's Saturday Grinhaven't heard that for years, my dad used to say that!

thatmustbenigelwiththebrie · 09/09/2019 20:37

I only know because of Enid blyton. It's a pretty outdated term.

Mitebiteatnite · 09/09/2019 20:37

May with my DDad it usually meant where he was going was none of your business Grin but I think the generally accepted usage is gone to do something you don't want to explain (jobcentre, toilet, court Blush)
My dad used to say it a LOT around Christmas time when we were little and DMum only recently told me he'd say when he was going out to buy presents for me Grin

FrederickAlgernonTrotteville · 09/09/2019 20:39

I thought 'man about a dog' meant 'none of your business'. Is there another meaning?

KateCantab · 09/09/2019 20:40

I’m familiar with these sayings. The Coventry one seems to go way back in time, with several thoughts on the origin.
My parents referred to Friday as Poets Day throughout my childhood.
I didn’t know what it meant until I did just that.

lesleyw1953 · 09/09/2019 20:40

I've known about it for a long time - does anyone else know "Charley's dead?" as a phrase with a specific meaning?

tryingtobebetterallthetime · 09/09/2019 20:42

"Swinging the lead" gets me blank stares.

managedmis · 09/09/2019 20:42

used the phrase "all quiet on the Western Front" at work......blank stares from all the under-30s

^

I use this all the time! I'm 37...

Man about a dog is mind your own business, no?

Likethebattle · 09/09/2019 20:45

I know all of these...aw fuck i’m old. Would ghosting be the modern day Coventry?

youarenotkiddingme · 09/09/2019 20:45

I'm 39 and know.

But again that's from Malory Towers, St Claire's and probably Enid Bluton in general!

youarenotkiddingme · 09/09/2019 20:48

I have to admit I don't know the Origen though, if someone would like to me plain?!

Emmapeeler · 09/09/2019 20:48

I know it because of Enid Blyton, as does my daughter!

My Dad used to say, I’ll be there in two shakes of a donkey’s tail. Not heard that for a while.

Love51 · 09/09/2019 20:53

Two shakes of a lambs tail round here.

When I had recently moved to Yorkshire I completed some work, my new collegue said oh, you can go and swing in a hammock.

Scarborough warning.

Mitebiteatnite · 09/09/2019 20:55

Ahhh two shakes of a lambs tail is another one my dad used to say. I miss hearing him talk Sad

CopperTrolley · 09/09/2019 20:56

My grandfather always used to say that he couldn’t do something “because I’ve got a bone in my leg”, and his age was “as old as my tongue, and a little older than my teeth”.

BlackNoir · 09/09/2019 20:57

Seeing a man about a dog is going for a piss.
So is turning the bike around.

MsTSwift · 09/09/2019 20:57

Although sending someone to Coventry is actually exclusionary bullying

ritzbiscuits · 09/09/2019 20:59

Yes I know, but only through Mallory Towers. I can't imagine young people would know, it's an old fashioned term.

janj2301 · 09/09/2019 21:01

Ashamed to say I've never read Enid Blyton. I recognise all those sayings. I also work with youngsters who look at me really oddly when i use these or talk about old TV shows, even 60s pop music.

Smelborp · 09/09/2019 21:09

It’s a term which refers to the English civil war. There was a church which was used as a prison for one side (the royalists?). Coventry was firmly on the other side (Roundheads?) and so no one would speak with the prisoners.

I read that on a plaque on the church used as a prison. It’s in the city centre somewhere.

GrumpiestCat · 09/09/2019 21:12

Yes it means noone acknowledges you or talks to you.