Is there a mattress that would allow my partner to be a big fidgit and not wake me up?

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My husband wakes me multiple times a night by rolling over, mild snoring and nicking covers. I have trouble sleeping as it is so this is breaking me. I am miserable and depressed through lack of sleep. I've tried earplugs, which I struggle to sleep in and could hear him but not the toddler in the next room when I needed to. We have a pocket sprung king sized mattress already. I have suggested two beds pushed next to each other to make a superking but he got really upset and said we might as well be divorced if we did that. I love him but I hate the fact he'd rather see me knackered and miserable than doing something that could help.
Is there a miracle mattress our there that smothers out heavy rolling or do we need to call a divorce lawyer? (Last bit light-hearted)

I had exactly this problem with my DH and then like some others above we got a super king size bed with 2 single mattresses attached together. Having the two mattresses makes a huge difference as I'm barely aware of his moving about. The extra space is very important too.

Just seen your other post. I'd highly recommend upgrading to a super king size. We went from King size to super king size and its made such a difference. The extra size really gives you more space to spread out and be comfortable (and not be disturbed by your DH!)

I’d go and get two duvets today, at least tonight might be better. It’s the norm in Scandi countries.

We got two Ikea single mattress in/on one frame with a memory topper on top, plus 2 single duvets. Life so much better for us both!

Dont get 2 single duvets! 2 doubles at a minimum.

We have a super king bed but 2 separate single duvets! Cannot believe I never thought of 2 separate single mattresses!!! Genius!

We have two single mattresses on a super king bed

Its awesome, one of the best things we ever did

Foam is much better for this than springs. It doesn't 'ping' you around if a heavier person moves or gets up.

We've a tempur one which is amazing and I can't feel DH get up or down at all.

This is our mattress and it’s awesome. I really notice the difference if we have to sleep on another bed, I end up eddying in my husband’s wake.

We have separate bedrooms and we're very happy together. I sleep really well. Try it if you can op

The Tempur ones look expensive! I do quite like the idea of a memory foam one, I'm seeing some with lifetime warranties (although I know there are sometimes tricks with these to make them not as good as they sound). Does anyone have the Emma mattress? Does it muffle disturbance well enough? I told my husband he reminded me of a dolphin when they leap out of the water and turn midair before splashing back down. That's how he turns over in bed on a bad day...

To be honest, good mattresses are surprisingly expensive.

We got sprung mattresses but expensive ones with over 4000 springs per mattress so it gives loads of support. As we have the 2 single mattresses joined together I'm not aware of when my husband moves around on his mattress. You don't have to get memory foam. They felt really weird to me but I know others love them.

I have suggested two beds pushed next to each other to make a superking but he got really upset and said we might as well be divorced if we did that.

I would call his bluff! What a pratt he is!

I don't think any kind of mattress is going to change your sleepless nights, particularly with regards to snoring

Do you have a spare room?

I've got a tempur and I dont know my DP turns at all. It's well worth the money

If you get a super king it is two singles inside a zipped up cover. Best thing ever and has saved my marriage!

At a hotel in Copenhagen we had two 3ft divan that zipped together and separate single duvets. It was bliss! I would have copied the idea if our bedroom were a smidge bigger.

Your DH could do his Seaworld impressions all night and you'd be none the wiser.

Have you served up krill for his breakfast yet?

I think our bedroom is too small for a superking, although it does sound amazing! I think we need to try out a few in real life when we get chance as some people don't like memory foam ones and it's expensive to try out on a whim. I've slept a tiny bit better the last couple of nights so I'm not feeling as low. Hopefully we can try some at weekend and then make a decision as I've spent so many hours looking at hybrids online.

I'm the fidget and duvet stealer, dh is the snorer, I'm the lighter sleeper here!

We found a memory foam mattress to be the best thing not not bounce him out of bed when I toss and turn. Sadly it means he sleeps better and I can't purposely accidentally bounce him out of bed while he's keeping me awake.

Oh, and dh has a spare duvet in case I've stolen it all and I have an extra blanket for when it's colder as we operate two different temperature zones normally.