I don't know if this is a bit outing but here goes...
I had a really close friend before I had my son 18 months ago. I mean we met up every weekend, holidayed together... my best friend really. After my son was born I felt she got a bit flakey, I wouldn't hear much from her and if we did meet up it was every 2-3 months and she would always zoom off after an hour, which was quite hurtful (she always had more exciting places to go, or so it felt like!). Anyway shortly after my son turned one, we moved house, a long ish distance away. We initially were staying with family then moved into a place, that all took 3 months, during which I heard nothing at all from her, she never asked how we were doing at all (and I was too busy to really follow it up but again I was having a stressful time and I felt abandoned by her really). Eventually I just lost my temper and unfriended her on Facebook which I accept was childish but I honestly got sick of looking at her chirpy statuses every day and never hearing from her, it felt like a bullshit "friendship".
That was all a month or so ago and I never heard again from her but I started to think about her and even though she was flakey, I do miss her. I tried dropping her a quick message to say hello but she has ignored it.
It was all quite unlike me as I rarely fall out with or completely lose contact with friends, friendships just flex and change over time depending on circumstances so it makes me feel sad to lose such a close friend but sometimes I wonder if she was trying to slowly drop me anyway after my son was born - and certainly we would be unlikely to see each other in future without making some effort.
Is this worth trying to fix? If so what should I do?