Unfairly targeted in Facebook

[Crawley65]

I’m really wound up about this and wish I wasn’t.

I live on a new build estate and we have a closed Facebook page that deals with news and things like lack of parking on the estate.

I am on holiday and have just seen a neighbour has put up a photo of my empty parking bays saying how selfish I am for not parking there! He has also commented on the page that I have two spaces but only use one. I’ve advertised the space for rent but no one wants it.

AIBU to be upset I have been commented on for no reason.

I would probably comment word for word
“I’m on holiday you sad cunt, get a hobby”

Adding to which, the photo will highlight that you are away which is a security issue. I would be sending that person a pretty rude message.

@EndGamer im in an old estate, 1980s and the nonsense is ridiculous. NIMBies trying to block a shortcut that would be very useful atm. Petitions and clipboards etc

My dads new build estate is EXACTLY like this! There's photographs being taken of parking infringements, of pieces of rubbish that's fallen out of the dustbin wagon, of weeds in front gardens. It makes me so glad a live on a council estate where people are much more concerned with their own lives to care where you park your car.

We have a village thing called neighbourhood. I had to leave it as I'd rather not know my neighbours were idiots. Blissful ignorance.

I like the gazebo idea with wind chimes and maybe a weather vane?

My friend lives on a new build estate and says it's like living with someone peering through your window at all times. There are FB/What'sApp groups etc where it all starts off friendly before someone pisses someone else off by not having the correct coloured geraniums. She removed herself from every group within about a fortnight.

I was brought up on a big estate in the 80s and you knew some of your neighbours and nobody butted in to everyone else's business. Apart from one person on every single street that everyone took the piss out of. 😂

I would probably comment word for word
“I’m on holiday you sad cunt, get a hobby”

Please put this 😂😂

When you get back, take a photo of your neighbour's garden when he's not there, and complain that people are having gardens and lawns just sitting there, how selfish is it not to use them!

My DD lived in a house with a parking space - neither she nor her OH have a car. Their next door neighbour used to complain about OH's mum parking in the space when she visited them - because they were used to it being empty and it spoiled their view!

People be crazy.

How is it any of his business if and for what you use your parking? Maybe you just like to keep it there, all empty, simply to look at it?

I live in an area with lots and lots of new build estates and I know of one that has a Facebook group, thankfully my estate doesn't although there's the odd group text or drinks, etc.

My lovely friend lives in Facebook group estate and it's apparently hilariously full of people moaning about others turning their vehicles in the street, TURNING... how bloody dare they and people ranting about others using a shared bit of property to stand on to admire a local view, which encourages others to go and shout at people enjoying the view. Lunatics!

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Today 08:53KatharinaRosalie

When you get back, take a photo of your neighbour's garden when he's not there, and complain that people are having gardens and lawns just sitting there, how selfish is it not to use them!"
This, please do this! He might then realise that like you he can't be everywhere at once :o