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NLEW · 02/09/2019 22:55

Hello everyone,
Me and my fiancé have recently moved into our new home and had our 1st beautiful daughter in march. She was born prematurely and required extra support for the first month. Everything was perfect when we got home with our DD untill his parents started making us uncomfortable. It wasn't bad at first they were just making snide comments on how we raised her and shouldn't listen to our health visitor. We left our DD for about 2 hours with them and I later found out MIL had co slept with my daughter. We of course wasn't impressed and told her off only for them to say we're being overprotective and stupid. We started to never leave them alone with her because of this and they were starting to make jokes of social services about us apparently not feeding her enough or being too rough (this isn't true). They would get mad if my daughter sat next to me during dinner and not them. They refused her daddy to hold her as they said we have her all the time. And recently his mum came over and was holding my daughter. And then a few days ago she randomly said that if anyone stopped her from seeing DD then she would kill them. His dad was also calling us selfish for wanting to spend time as a family instead of letting them see our daughter... It's starting to get to me now.
Im going to talk to my health visitor on what we can do as I think we may have to stop them from seeing DD because their getting quite unstable mentally.
Can I have anyone's opinions whether I'm making the right choice?

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Soola · 02/09/2019 23:01

What’s going on here?

You already posted this but in a slightly different manner.

Aquamarine1029 · 02/09/2019 23:04

Of course you're making the right choice. Your partner's parents are unhinged and your ONLY responsibility is to your child. I can tell you quite emphatically that these people wouldn't be going anywhere near my child if I were you. It's time to sever contact.

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ElizaPancakes · 03/09/2019 00:04

OP this is your third thread on the same thing. You need to wait for people to respond.

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