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This still bothers me - should it? **OP post mentions non-consensual sex - warning added by MNHQ**

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whatever23 · 01/09/2019 13:36

2.5 weeks after DD was born MIL came to stay. She said she'd hold DD for a bit so I could sleep. I was knackered as had had major blood loss and stitches from the labour and then an infection a new born. I go to go to sleep. DH gets in bed too and starts trying for a cuddle. At first I don't mind the cuddle but then I'm feeling uncomfortable and then he's inside me. It hurts. I manage to get him off me and go and sit with my mother in law in the front room (feet away).

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SuzieQ10 · 01/09/2019 18:57

This is horrible. When did this incident happen? Has anything similar happened since?
I'm sorry this happened to you. Did you speak to him about it afterwards?

HobbyIsCodeForDogging · 01/09/2019 19:39

Well best case scenario he's a selfish inconsiderate prick, what kind of man tried to have sex with his partner 2 weeks postpartum when there's been stitches and infection? Thinking only of his own sexual gratification and no thought at all for your comfort and recovery.

However you say "managed to get him off me". Now that is worrying. It makes it sound like you had a struggle to make him stop. That's what would make it rape.

In either case, yes it would bother me. Sorry it happened to you Thanks

whatever23 · 01/09/2019 20:20

@Rarrrrrr def not a troll

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