NC as outing. (Well if she saw it anyway)
More of a rant really and some perspective.
I've realised my 'best friend' is a complete bitch and not sure how it's taken me so long to realise and why I put up with it for so long.
She's always been quite diggy towards me. Been with my partner for 8 years and there have been occasions where she has made me doubt my partner by the stuff she has said because she has got in my head. When we first got together I had a text from her asking if my partner was with me. He was but i said he wasn't to find out what she had to say. She carried on by saying she had just seen him holding hands with his girl mate. He hadn't as he had been with me for the last 2 days. When I told her it wasn't him but thanks for having my back she decided to stop talking to me for a month because I didn't believe her 
. Also to add everytime she has a boyfriend she would accuse me of talking to them or them contacting me... half the time I never even knew the person she was dating and I would never do that to anyone let alone a friend and she'd ask to go through my phone to check, which I said absolutely not to! She would also start texts like 'I don't want to start anything but about X' then she'd have me asking it and then say 'it doesn't matter I don't want to start any trouble' my partner was getting fed up of it as was I as it was utter bollocks. She then tried to catfish my partner by sending flirty messages. He never replied and showed me all the messages he received from this person so that plan backfired. He never knew it was her and nor did I until recently when she said it was her...
One time we were all going out, I have a lot of boy mates and we were all pre drinking at mine and she proceeded to text her mum saying I was a slut for having this many boys round... she was acting like it was some sort of fucking orgy. I found the text as she text her mum on my phone as she didn't have credit (bare in mind this was 7 years ago) but forgot to delete the message. I stepped back at this point for a while and couldn't be arsed to confront her and her silly opinion.
A lot of other stuff happened in between with the most recently being I have had a child. She has met my child once.. which I had to take my child to her... 
she recently text me saying how boring I am and that I'm busy doing boring mum stuff. We're nearly 30... not like we're children here. Now that's when the light switched on which has clearly been turnt off for many years and I thought go and fuck your self. She asked to come round and I have told her to get lost basically. I just can't be bothered with her immaturity. She still lives at home and doesn't hold down any jobs it's all very childish.
I've just had enough of her constantly slagging my partner off and calling me boring because I don't want to go out with her and just generally trying to ruin my relationship for no reason what so ever.
There is so much more and one particular thing she did which i can't post about as it's very outing and knowing her she's probably lurking somewhere
More of a rant really. Can't believe I put up with it for so long. Please tell me someone else had a shitty friend? She's a fucking weirdo and clearly not right in the head. How did I let it carry on for so long I'll never know!