Long-time user, have recently name-changed.
Wondered what the thoughts of MN are on maternal care. My DD was born by c section earlier this year - she was a huge baby, back to back, induction failed to progress. I requested the section after stalling at 5cm and faced a huge battle with consultants. Now, I understand the NHS is under pressure to keep the number of sections down for many good reasons.
But my baby was too big to come out and I was told later it would have ended in an emergency section, possibly after failed forceps delivery which could have left me with a severe tear and lasting damage, not to mention the risk to DD.
I was made to feel stupid for asking for the section, like I was making a fuss and had just 'chickened out' of natural labour.
I've since read countless threads on here from woman who have been left with horrendous injuries and offered very little support - many of which could seemingly have been avoided if more attention had been paid to their concerns and frankly, their bodies.
It makes me angry that so many mothers have been treated this way and left to then get on with the gruelling process of taking care of a newborn.
I'm sure not all hospitals are like this and nor are all aspects of care - I found the midwives who looked after me incredible.
But far too often it seems women are ignored and treated almost as an afterthought in the process of having a baby.
Sorry for the long post - it's an issue that's been on my mind and wanted to hear others' views.