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Hadenoughofitall441 · 26/08/2019 22:40

Have you ever felt so much rage you don’t know what to do with it.... I’m not violent so I defo don’t hit out.
Tell me if I’m wrong here.
We all live together to minimise on bills and generally it works ( me, DP, 2 dc, Mum and Dsis. It’s a big enough house for us all so no issues. Had a massive row with sister who is 15 because she constantly torments both my dc one of which has asd. She mostly does this when my mums not around. We were talking and joking and then I needed to go outside to lock up the garden, the minute I walked outside she goes to torment my kids. I was watching her through the back door so she has no way of twisting the story. I come in and ask her nicely to leave them alone, she doesn’t listen, then of course DS who has asd starts to get irritated, I ask her to stop several more times but of course she doesn’t. Then she finally turns to leave, but turns around and stops in there way, dd trips and knocks into DS causing him to push into dsis and she then pushes DS harshly. I told them both to be careful and told her that it was not necessary to push him like that as it was an accident. Then she’s all tell him off blah blah. Which I’d already done and she heard me, I’m not sure what else she wanted me to do bearing in mind it was an accident. I wasn’t gonna roar at him for no reason. She proceeds to torment them. I’ve got them to bed now and DS is all worked up. I’m full of rage because it’s seriously impossible to reason with unreasonable people. She thinks she’s done nothing wrong whatso ever and said she wasn’t blocking there way they could have closed the door, which would have meant her getting hit with the door and would have caused world war 3. MY kids ain’t perfect and they do get told off on a daily basis, she does do this when my mums at home but not as much as my mum tells her off. I’m not sure why, she gets as much attention than them if not more and yet she still acting like this.mshe also then starts on dd who’s only 6. Everyone generally gets on like a house on fire it’s just her, she can’t live without drama. Especially if one of her friends has pissed her off she takes out on everyone else.
Phew... rant over, please tell me I’m not the only one to feel rage towards unr3asonable people 😡

OP posts:
HennyPennyHorror · 26/08/2019 22:54

You need to move out. You need to live somewhere your DS isn't bullied and tormented!

PennyGold · 26/08/2019 22:59

Move out?

BobTheFishermansWife · 26/08/2019 23:02

You need to move out, nothing will change while you and your sister are under the same roof.

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Scruffalicious · 26/08/2019 23:07

Hang on, do DM and Dsis live with OP or the other way around?

Finfintytint · 26/08/2019 23:08

She is not mature enough as a child herself to deal with little ones that are not siblings. You should be mature enough to know this will never work and should move out.

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