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Feel destroyed

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FrumpyKnickers · 24/08/2019 11:31

I work in 2 roles in same company in one of my positions I spoke to my superior we ll call her a expressing that i felt i was bein bullied by the other superior b she then spoke to b and told her i felt i was being bullied b respond by saying if i felt like that talk to boss. I just wanted to sort it between ourselves so asked her for a chat when she called me into offi e she had manager there as a witness she said that she was very hurt i accused her of bullying she was only one that ever asks me how my son and husband were(they both had operations recently) probably she was one of few that knew about them. I explained how a recent comment was made that made me feel humiliated in front of customers she put it down as banter and she speaks like that to everyone she is just maybe too friendly with her staff also i brouvht up other incidents which she had excuses the end result is she never wants to work on same shift as me she wouldnt feel comfortable after I made such an accusation against her. This suits me fine I just feel that she made herself look like the victim here. I cant sleep I cant stop crying. It took a lot for me to psyche myself up to confront her now I feel stupid I have no idea what to do.

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WorraLiberty · 25/08/2019 14:33

If she feels as though she isn't bullying you, then she would genuinely feel as though she is a victim here - hence her not wanting to risk working alone with you.

Equally, you feel as though she is bullying you so therefore you genuinely feel like a victim too.

It's best that you don't work together but if you want to take it further then you'll have to escalate it further up and make your complaint official.

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