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Blows to DC's head

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Chewingbubblegum · 23/08/2019 19:59

Would really value views on this. My son is 7 and during the course of his 7 years he has had a number of bumps and blows to his head - hit in the head by another child accidentally with a bat (twice, different kids, different events), falling and banging his head (several times), bumping into things, etc.

I'm really worried that he might develop serious problems in the future because of these incidents and that they may take years to manifest. There isn't anything obviously wrong with him but I can't but worry if there is damage there that will show up sooner or later.

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Avocadodance · 23/08/2019 20:31

I reckon most kids have a similar history so don't think it's likely to do any real harm. With boxers, footballers etc it's far more regular and higher impact. My ds used to headbang and it was awful so I sometimes worries about this but hvs said he wouldn't be doing any damage.

Bubbletrouble43 · 23/08/2019 20:34

My brother had constant knocks to the head, cricket bats, falls, mum jokes she was in a and e nearly every weekend . No lasting effects, superbly intelligent and academic ( unlike me) only thing is he can't have his hair cut super short as all the scars on his head show.( had stitches several times!)

Bunnybigears · 23/08/2019 20:34

It's unlikely those events will cause any future damage. But even if it does there is nothing that can be done about it now. The type of head injuries that are causing American Footballers to suffer illnesses in their early retirement are far more regular than a few childhood bumps.

Cornettoninja · 23/08/2019 20:59

Unless he’s been regularly concussed or lost consciousness I don’t think you need to worry. Heads can take a fair bit of knocking around and all kids tend to give them a good test run at various points.

Chewingbubblegum · 23/08/2019 21:10

Thank you so much for your reassuring posts. I'll share them with my husband who is equally worried about the bangs and blows to the head. He has never been concussed. He is definitely giving his head a good test run.

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Lulualla · 23/08/2019 21:13

Repeated concussions are what cause lasting damage and why American footballers often have problems later in life.
He can't have been hit hard enough to cause any lasting affects.

TheRugbyValkyrie · 23/08/2019 21:13

A bang on the head isn't necessarily a problem.
The problems come when there is a sudden deceleration, which causes the brain to impact inside the skull.
Fewer than 10% of concussion results in loss of consciousness.

Chewingbubblegum · 23/08/2019 21:19

TheRuby, so how would I know if his brain decelerated if there was no loss of consciousness? What would be the symptoms / signs?

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Lulualla · 23/08/2019 21:25

Headache, confusion, dizziness, vomiting, change in behaviour like very unsettled and wobbly. You would have noticed if something wasn't right.

TheRugbyValkyrie · 23/08/2019 21:54

bjsports-2017-097492childscat5.full .PDF

I really hope that link works.

As has been said, you would have noticed symptoms.
The deceleration I mentioned. Imagine a rugby player going into a tackle, if he gets his technique wrong, he will have head impact and his body stops very suddenly but because of the head impact, his brain impacts inside the skull.

Put a ping pong ball into a jam jar of water and shake.

Some are very unlucky and have many failed HIAs. I played for 20 odd years and had 1.

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