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"Last generation who knew life before the internet"

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Nextphonewontbesamsung · 20/08/2019 21:16

I heard this phrase on R2 or R4 recently (sorry I can't remember the specifics). It was a discussion programme, possibly about something on at the Edinburgh Fringe, and the general consensus was that it was quite unique to be a person who has lived through as an adult straddling that boundary between no internet/then internet.

I am in this generation and I DO actually feel in a bit of a no-mans land. Anyone else? and how old are you roughly? when did the internet become a thing in your life?

I was at work in 1994/5 when I first heard the word "internet". The Chief Exec was having some extra wiring done into his office but he was the only one in our company of about 50 people. I was over 30 so had lived many adult years without it and it was many more years before it become a thing that I just had access to.

I'm struggling to think of a more life-changing invention. Maybe fire? or the wheel?

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ArgumentativeAardvaark · 21/08/2019 22:33

BT charge cards! I’d forgotten those!

80sMum · 21/08/2019 22:55

In 1978, before DH and I were married, we were expecting his mum and dad to come and meet us at DH's bedsit and spend a day with us. They were quite late, which was totally out of character. The bedsit had no phone and anyway they would be on their way, so we couldn't call them.
Then the doorbell rang and a telegram arrived, explaining that DH's mum wasn't feeling well, so they weren't coming after all. It was the only way they could contact us. Seems very archaic now.

The only person who had a mobile communication device in those days was Captain Kirk! Grin

Benefitofthedoubt · 21/08/2019 23:02

My sister me I had a system that we’d ring through mum (who was usually in) if we needed to get in touch with each other. EG If sis didn’t turn up at a meeting place but i’d rung her (from a phone box) and she wasn't at home, ring mum and she’d usually have a message.

We were used to not knowing stuff in those days though. It wasn’t as awful as it sounds.

In fact I hated mobiles when they came in and refused to have one for years because I just knew some people would ring me several Times a day and expect me to answer.

0pheIiaBaIIs · 21/08/2019 23:26

In fact I hated mobiles when they came in and refused to have one for years

DH still refuses to carry one!

ErrolTheDragon · 21/08/2019 23:26

The only person who had a mobile communication device in those days was Captain Kirk!

It's quite funny watching classic sci fi to see what looks dated and what doesn't. Often the things which look out of place now are when they were trying to be 'futuristic' or using current cutting edge technology.

My favourite is the rotating dna molecule in Wrath of Khan. There's no real reason for it to be there except that at that in 1982 that was the ultimate in computer graphics, requiring an eyewateringly expensive Evans&Sutherland vector graphics machine. Within a few years that technology was pretty much obsolete, displaced by the likes of Silicon graphics (costing roughly the same in 1986 as our first house). Nowadays a pretty normal pc with a graphics card can do better.

MaudesMum · 21/08/2019 23:38

I went to secretarial college after Uni, so 1982/3 and learnt to type on a manual typewriter, occasionally using an electric one. As the 1980s progressed, the electric typewriters became electronic, and then (gasp) word processors. I remember getting very excited when I saw my first fax in the mid-80s. The places I worked for after that were not very cutting edge, so we had individual computers not really networked together in the early 90s, and it wasn't until the mid/late 90s when we actually had something approaching a network. At about that point a colleague made me a basic home computer out of bits and pieces of kit. As I remember it, there was a dial-up modem, so not exactly speedy, and I mainly used it for email. I'm actually quite proud about how well I've adapted to the modern age - today I found myself trying to explain to a couple of confused 18 year-olds in the office I'm temporarily working in exactly how google drive worked and why they couldn't access certain files on a shared drive.

LeekMunchingSheepShagger · 21/08/2019 23:45

I'd never used the internet until I arrived at uni in 1998 and was given an email address. We had to queue for ages in the computer room to check our emails or type an essay.

I finally got a laptop of my own in 2001. My DP's bought it for me and it cost almost £1000 ShockShock it was dial up internet and you couldn't use it if anyone was on the phone (shared student house and someone was always on the phone!)

TrendyNorthLondonTeen · 21/08/2019 23:46

I remember a group of us in the bedroom of the first of my friends to have a PC and internet, all huddled round her PC marvelling at Yahoo! chatrooms and terribly made Geocities websites, probably some time back in the late nineties. Eventually when we got it at home I remembering convincing my mum to finally get broadband by telling her that we could use the phone AND internet at the same time, because dial up couldn't do both!

SimplySteveRedux · 22/08/2019 00:09

Welcome to CompuServe - 1989!

TenPastFugit · 22/08/2019 07:27

The first time I used the internet was at a friends house. I had been to a shop that sold posters and I bought one as a gift but wanted another like it for myself. The shop assistant advised I look on Google and I had never heard of it so she went into great detail about how to do it and I wrote it all down on a paper bag from the shop.
My friend had a computer and I followed the intructions on the paper bag and was amazed!

VivaLeBeaver · 22/08/2019 07:32

I went on holiday to Thailand in 1998 and booked accommodation I found in the Lonely Planet guide.

I did have email so was able to email them to book but I don’t think there was enough info on the internet to be able to actually search for the accommodation then.

cricketmum84 · 22/08/2019 09:07

Whatever happened to MySpace?

CigarsofthePharoahs · 22/08/2019 09:08

No Google??? So how did you find stuff out??

Anyone remember the encyclopedia Encarta? Many many CDs!

lololove · 22/08/2019 09:15

The encarta game was incredible Grin

ErrolTheDragon · 22/08/2019 09:15

Whatever happened to MySpace?

It still exists, apparently.

lazylinguist · 22/08/2019 09:15

The speed of change has been incredible. But I don't feel at all unique - surely half of the current living population has been alive during that transition.

Nextphonewontbesamsung · 22/08/2019 21:02

I meant unique in a historical context. Not unique in the here and now.

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Ormally · 22/08/2019 21:20

Went to university in 1997 (Spice Girls were the soundtrack both of my interview date and first weeks there).
Somewhere, I still have a rather touching A4 'Welcome' style letter from my subject tutor that was in a box of random cleared out stuff my Mum brought me recently. It stresses to the class of '97 that email would be an official form of communication for teaching arrangements etc and that it would be considered very rude not to aim to check it at least as often as you check your pigeonhole, that is, approx. twice a day :)

Weymo · 24/08/2019 12:39

I’m nearly 51.

Age 10 we bought a Vic 20 then later Commodore64 home computer. They had a tape cassette add-on with games.

Vic20 was £300 in about 1980.

As kids watching Tomorrow’s World I remember feeling like technology was advancing and it fascinating.

But growing up in the 1970s, we were always outdoors because we lived rural, next to a wood, with rivers, golf course, wide open parkland and canals around us.

When we moved into the centre of slummy terraced housing in town (so my parents could buy their first home )we tried to play outside on the private allotments, in the multi storey car park, or in the local school playground when it was closed, but those were the only open spaces in the town centre and always got chased off by owners, so we gave up after a short while and stayed indoors watching telly most of the time.

My kids spent their young years in a village and had space to roam, moved to town centre and they couldn’t play out (traffic, no open space nearby) and now we live in suburbia adjacent to green spaces and they still rarely play out.

FuckAPotNoodle · 24/08/2019 12:49

I was the first person in my office with email access - I can also clearly remembering interviewing a tech geek for a feature and he was describing Bluetooth and how it would revolutionise things.

ConfCall · 24/08/2019 13:02

I remember Encarta and Asserta (RightMove’s predecessor) in the late 1990s. Also Friends Reunited and eBay. Thought they were all the bee’s knees. Dial-up was a nuisance though!

Bezalelle · 24/08/2019 13:08

Encarta!!

I remember the day my dad came home with that on CD-ROM. We were late to a family meal because we were so entranced by it.

WallyWallyWally · 24/08/2019 14:04

Yes, I remember this. I was in 4th year at Uni in 1994 and the department had just installed its first computer lab. Clunky old beige machines, no instructions - we were just told to get in with it! We used them to type up our honours dissertations, though handwritten was still acceptable ;-) and to do some very basic modelling. I don’t think they were actually connected to the internet though.

No one I knew had a home pc, though we had a BBC computer that my mum bought through her school. My sister and I used to buy books with pages of code to type in, to play a very basic game. Again no internet.

M’y first email address was a «telnet» one that a techie friend set up for me, as I was travelling overseas after graduation. It hardly ever worked!

ICouldBeSomebodyYouKnow · 24/08/2019 15:15

I became a computer programmer in 1981.
We hand-wrote the code on special pads, a bit like squared paper. The pads were A4, landscape. The sheets went off to the data prep section, where they were turned into punched cards, and returned to us, in a box a bit like a long show box. We then passed the box to the computer operators, who fed the cards into a mainframe computer. If you'd made a mistake in the syntax (eg a missing dot or comma or bracket), it all came back, and you'd use a hand punch to punch a replacement card or several. Tedious, labour intensive, and slow.

Then, great excitement when we got dumb terminals, and could type our code in directly! And it checked the syntax in moments, so we could correct it right away. Productivity for us programmers shot up, but the data prep jobs were no longer needed Sad.

Before I left that company (1986) something arrived called a One Per Desk. It was essentially a forerunner to the modern day PC. But as there was only one in the office, it wasn't a lot of use. It was on loan to different offices, on a rota, as a means of seeing if it was worth having. I got roped into helping to set it up and I recall we somehow managed to get Ceefax on it. There wasn't much else you could do with it at the time.

MIL retired in 1897 and bought herself an Amstrad word processor. She was a copy typist, using manual then electronic typewriters, then finally a word processor, shortly before she retired.

The earliest PC operating system I used was Windows 3.1, then Windows 98. Not sure when I first got an email address at work, but I think it was late 90s. I well remember Encarta on its multiple CDs on our home computer. We bought it from Tiny computers, and it came with a huge bundle of CDs - encyclopedias, games, etc. I was creating websites by 2001.

My parents were both dead by 1996 and never used a computer or the internet. My FIL used mainframe computers at work (corporate accounting), but although he lived until 2017, he never used a PC or a smartphone.

Interesting thread.

ICouldBeSomebodyYouKnow · 24/08/2019 15:16

MIL retired in 1987 obvs

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