Is anyone's marriage/ relationship not really really bad but not great either? Don't know what to do.

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There isn't anything horrific going on in my relationship but things aren't brilliant either.
I'm not exactly expecting that things should be rosey all the time and naturally there will be ups and downs.

But its just that lately I'm feeling really confused. I go from wanting to leave to just thinking I'm being silly and should stay. I'm yo-yoing and i don't even know where it's all come from.

How do you know what you're going to do is the right thing? Should I ride out this confusion and stick with it?

I'm going through the same thing. Dp does the bare minimum with parenting but thinks he does enough. He also spends a lot of time at the gym and with his friends, when I say he doesn't do enough or doesn't spend enough time at home with us his response is "well I can't help it if you have no friends or hobbies" no mate I've just got my priorities in the right place and if it was for me be the way I am then you wouldn't physically be able to have all your leisurely time. We've decided to split and he's looking for his own place. I'm just sad for the kids, his the only father figure my older 3 have had.