My husband has always liked wearing my underwear, saying they just felt nice. But a few years ago, I discovered he had been on our p.c and been on a crossdressing site. He had posted a photo of himself in my clothes ( not showing his face) and sent messages to men, talking sexually, wanting dirty photos.I confronted him and he was very sorry and things were good for a while. I found it hard to trust him after that. He promised he wouldn't go on sites like that again and wouldn't go on chat groups again.
Then a few months ago I discovered he had lied again by watching crossdressing porn, but the thing that upset me was, he was being secretive again and deleting evidence, not the fact he was watching pork as we have watched pork together. Things have been bad again, he never shows love. He 100% isn't having an affair as he is never out. But he is always angry. Then tonight I found out he was on a chat group on a gaming app on his Tablet. He told me I was being ridiculous when I was upset as he says they just talk about football (its a football team group with men and women) but he doesn't see that I'm angry because he has gone behind my back and hid things again instead of just saying he in a group. Am I being unreasonable? We have had a huge row with him smashing his Tablet.