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Feel rubbish - tips for cheering oneself up?

14 replies

BirthdayCakes · 16/08/2019 09:54

Hello.

I'm feeling a bit flat and miserable at the moment (nothing major) and wondering if anyone had any tips on cheering up - or even treating yourself..

I've been thinking about a nice bath but it's so meh.. I can't eat anything nice because I need to lose about 2 stone.. CBA cleaning anything or actually leaving the house, to be honest..

I know I SHOULD go for a walk/swim/allotment dig but it feels a bit like a punishment rather than a nuturing activity..

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RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 16/08/2019 09:57

Sorry you're feeling like this.

A bath is always lovely. Maybe take a book or magazine in with you.

Food wise, how about a punnet of raspberries or some lovely melon or mango?

A stomp around the local park or quiet cup of tea in a nice cafe?

Woolyheads · 16/08/2019 10:01

A bit of exercise should help - something simple like a short walk or some weeding as you’re not wanting to do too much,
A chat with a friend is nice.
Watch a comedy or read a funny book.
Smell your kids heads. Does it for me.
Brew Flowers

BirthdayCakes · 16/08/2019 10:13

Oh thank you for your replies!

It looks like I will have to drag my middle aged carcass out into the world at lunchtime.. Maybe I'll have a bath and put on make up in preparation - and i think i'll get some nice fruit (not too much though!) too..

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greenlynx · 16/08/2019 10:21

Go shopping and buy something nice, fancy tea or make up or clothes or something for the house.
I also like to go online and research something for the day out or theatre trip. I did this yesterday (it’s tricky day) and found a show I’d like to see for my birthday next year.

OldGrinch · 16/08/2019 10:25

What about getting into a really good book do you enjoy reading? I always find a good book is a great distraction and takes you to another place

MrsMozartMkII · 16/08/2019 10:29

Go to a different local attraction type place or garden or spot in the countryside or a gallery.

When I feel bleugh I either go to my brain clearing spot, where the wind blows through and clears the cobwebs, or do a bit of retail shopping, or accept it's a bleugh day and curl up with a dvd.

For a treat try freezing some pomegrante seeds, grapes, segments of fruit. Makes a good and low calorie 'mouth play / nibble' treat.

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 16/08/2019 10:32

Also, have a kitchen dance!

drivingtofrance · 16/08/2019 10:36

Exercise always cheers me up. Especially if it's a group activity.

Failing that a good long walk with some treats to look forward to when you get home? Take the bath afterwards and dig out a nice novel to get into.

Woolyheads · 16/08/2019 11:09

Oh yes Remus, a kitchen dance. And or a singalong. Turn the music up loud!

Seahorseshoe · 16/08/2019 11:17

Cake!!!

dontfollowmeimlosttoo · 16/08/2019 11:37

I recommend a wonderful book called " the wonderful weekend book- reclaim life's simple pleasures" elspeth thompson. It has simple wisdom for appreciating the small joys in life.

RezCowgirl · 16/08/2019 11:48

Start planning next years holiday - that always cheers me up

lisbonholiday · 16/08/2019 11:49

There are lots of lovely low calorie things you can eat!

Treat yourself to some beautiful fruit, chill it, cut it up all pretty!

Make 'banana ice cream' - freeze bananas in a bag with skins off, blitz in a blender.. that's it! Makes the perfect consistency.

Make yourself a dip with philly, peas, garlic and herbs blitzed together, dip in some carrot/pepper/cucumber

lisbonholiday · 16/08/2019 11:50

Clear out your wardrobes or do a big clean with fun music! Always makes me feel great

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