I have mixed feelings. We used to have full family cover but as dh is self employed there were no company scheme discounts or not substantial ones anyway. I now have cover theough work - subsidized. The dc's premiums pretty much tripled when they hit 18.
I have cystic breast disease and that was fantastic with annual checkups and the consultant did the aspirations, always using a freezing spray. I once had a cancer check on the NHS - no freezing spray for the aspiration and it hurt like hell, disorganised clinic where women were treated like cattle, and I was there for 7 hours due to poor organisation. Had a colonoscopy last year and consultant care on BUPA was brilliant but the nursing care was hit and miss.
DD has had MH problems and had she been admitted all would have been paid. All psychiatry was paid but there was a limit on therapy of £500 which wasn't nearly enough. All psychiatry consultations were covered until DD was diagnosed with ADHD, diagnostics forbwhichbwe had tonpay. The policy didn't cover neuro developmental disability and consultations thereafter were not covered because the root cause of the anxiety and depression was the ADHD. However, BUPA helped hugely with identifying a psychiatrist and therapists which both our GP and CAMHS refused to do.
The real issue I had was when dd was diagnosed with a septate hymen which BUPA classed as skin removal and chronic rather than acute and refused to pay despite the fact that thisbwould have prevented dd from leading a normal lifenor being able to have essential diagnostic tests such as cervical smears. They simply would not budge so I paid the £2,200 and follow up consultation. That I felt was pretty shoddy and down to small print to avoid paying for things like tummy tucks post bariatric surgery.
All in all a mixed bag and with all the small print, and fact that our combined premiums hit about £6k per annum I am minded to say one needs to be selective and it's probably worth setting aside the premiums and self paying where the NHS doesn't deliver adequate care.
More importantly I think the people who have cover are those who can articulate the inadequacies of the NHS most effectively and it is a shame so many feel they must be grateful for sub optimal care by virtue of having no choice.
Private care exists for significant reasons and it is those reasons that need to be dealt with. Roll on a European style healthcare system.