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Changing career after becoming a mum

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Fruitteatime · 12/08/2019 22:50

I've been a Mum for almost 6 years and lately I've been wondering about going back to work. My degree is a professional qualification that I have not practiced since getting it, and therefore is completely worthless. Firstly I can't see a way of getting into the job (little/no experience, not ever been registered with the professional body, 0 continuing professional development) and secondly since becoming a parent I'm not sure that I want to cope with the level of stress the job would bring alongside general family stresses. I do have a Saturday job but it's not something I want to do full time. My youngest is only 1 and I was at home with my eldest until she went to school. This time I'm more open to putting youngest into a nursery for short days once he gets to 3 years old (older one did do a couple of morning a week at 3 years and then 4 mornings a week at 4 years old).

Where the fuck do I start? I literally have no ambition. As a teenager I only wanted to be a mum and since fulfilling my dream I feel lost. I'm satisfied but not happy iyswim. I need some direction in my life and also we need some money as we're stuck in a flat right now. I'm wondering whether to do a masters or do some volunteering or to just apply for any part time job when the time comes. I guess I'm wondering if anyone else did a professional degree and then went in a totally different direction after having children?

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Fruitteatime · 12/08/2019 23:34

It's social work, I have about 6 months post qualifying work experience in a related job but not in the qualified role. I genuinely don't think I would even get an interview seeing as I applied for over 20 related jobs after getting my degree and already didn't have the right experience. Now the legal framework has almost certainly changed as has the standards which I qualified in so my knowledge is completely out of date. I'm glad it worked out for you LittleMissEngineer.

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Fruitteatime · 14/08/2019 21:03

Does anyone else have any experience of changing career after becoming a mum or having a useless degree?

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outthewindow · 14/08/2019 21:06

With a degree in social work could you look for a job with your local council in welfare rights, benefits or housing assistance type of thing? Usually councils are good at offering part time roles too which could suit.

Fruitteatime · 23/08/2019 11:08

06outthewindow that might be a way forward. I do feel like I don't have any up to date knowledge on housing etc but that is something that I can learn about online. I just feel like I rushed from school to university and did a degree that I am completely unsuitable for given that I wanted to be a sahm. I guess that is a separate issue.

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Itsallthelittlethings · 24/08/2019 22:52

Hi Fruit,
I have a degree in psychology and worked in the field for a few years. Loved forensic psychology and ended up joining the Gardaí. When i had my baby I just could not face going back so I started my own business as a baby photographer. Have to say I'm doing well. Only leave my babies 2 days a week and work from home around husband the other days. Earning similar to.what I did before and 9,000,0000 times less stressed. So I would say it can absolutely work and be really positive if you have a goal and a good idea and just go for it!

Els1e · 24/08/2019 23:11

I would try and focus on what is important to you. We go in and out of different jobs/roles throughout our lives. Sometimes because we have a keen interest, sometimes because it fits with our family, it gives us the benefits we want, sometimes simply the money we earn.

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