‘D’h admitted he took coke last night

[Namechanger1776]

He is 48. Grow the fuck up!

We went out for his birthday for a few drinks. I drove as I’ve had a stinking cold which got worse throughout the evening. By about 10.30, I decided to leave as was feeling crap, his mate said he could stay with him, that was fine. I came home and went straight to bed.

I went to pick him up this morning, he was rough and he never gets a hangover. Out of the blue I said did you take something last night. And he admitted it.

I’m so fucking cross. I took myself out for the entire day. Haven’t spoken to him. He has apologised and said he doesn’t know why he did it. I don’t want to talk to him at the moment so am in the other room.

He called me a hypocrite as I used to do it. Yes, I did funny that but I’ve managed to move on 20 years later.

I’m really upset with him, we are supposed to be going away next weekend. I don’t really want to go now. WWYD?

I think at 48 he made a decision, apologised and it should be let go now

Your right he does need to grow the fuck up.

I fucking hate drugs. If DH done that, I'd boot his arse out the door.

I'm vehemently anti drug but frankly given you clearly aren't you need to not be a hypocrite and accept he hasn't done anything worse than you have, doesn't matter when you took drugs, you took them.

Also sounds like regularly?

Yea you've not a leg to stand on really

I don’t see what age has to do with it

One off? Leave it now.

Why did you think he took something ?
Could he of not been really hung over for once ??
Or has he taken drugs before ?

One off on his birthday, when you used to do it and he’s apologised?! Let it go. Massive over reaction to want to cancel your trip next weekend.

It’s not really a big deal. If you chose to do something he didn’t like and apologised for it would you expect to be forgiven?