In the midst of bedtime at the moment with the now 3 year old whirlwind but can fish the list out of his red book if I ever escape downstairs!
Off the top of my head.
Propper vomiting. Not just a constant stream of milky sick but forceful vomitting. Ds did a few times when he was really poorly and there's a big difference. Never knew a small person could contain so much, enough to soak us both through.
Excessive crying and being unable to settle him. He was a very happy baby most of the time. Normal signs of pain particularly if they didn't settle quickly with pain relief.
Head banging. He liked to scare us all with that one.
Abnormal movements or lack of coordination as much as a baby of that age can be. We were told to look for things like toe pointing in a single limb.
Eyes appearing to buldge or looking wrong.
Sezuires, but you'd be right on the phone for an ambulance anyway. Try not to panic about that but look up the first aid if it plays on your mind. Ds did have these, he had a diagnosis of epilepsy now, nothing to do with his head size, but linked to his genetic deletion. Abcencess.
There were probably a few more but I remeber the nurse who talked us through it all saying everything was basically common sense and symptoms you would be seaking medical advice for anyway.
If you're worried about the wait try see if you can be put on the cancellation list. We're close to our hospital and we quite often get offered cancellations for ds' none urgent appointments as we can get into clinic with half an hours notice if we're free. We got on the list by ringing the out patients clinic and we're asked if we minded staying on it due to our proximity to the hospital. If the gp/pradatrition feels you're fine to wait 6 weeks going off the referral it may well just be a box ticking exercise. I go with the rule if people are rushing around you have something to worry about, being lower down the list is usually a good sign. It sounds like your engaging with all the right professionals, keep taking any worries to them in the mean time.
I was shocked how different to weighing a measuring procedures were between the health clinics, gp and out patient clinic. They all followed different guidelines with the health clinics being the worse of variation between people doing the measuring and everyone being insistent their measurements were right.