Just after some advice really, I’m 23 my boyfriend is 28 been together for 4 years everything is great except this Daughters mum, she literally hates me I don’t feel like I’ve done anything wrong met my partner when there daughter was 6 months old they had already split, can completely understand her feelings no one likes there ex moving on, thought it was all just calm down but 4 years I’m still the same, partner is not allowed to see his daughter if I’m around has to take her out which is fine I don’t push it she’s the mother respect her feelings, she makes his life so difficult though he recently lost his driving licence and she won’t let me pick the daughter up (even with him in the car) she insists he pays for taxis even though she lives around 10 miles away! Recently she found out that I picked them up from soft play as there was no available taxis and she stopped him seeing daughter for around a month and went to the school to change her surname from his to hers.
It’s so unfair not for me I can live with it but for my partner I can see it kills him. Any advice on how best to handle it TIA