It’s going to be hard to ask this without drip feeding so will try and be thorough.
I have diagnoses of endometriosis, adenomyosis, ME and fibromyalgia. I seriously question the last two as they don’t cover all my symptoms and seem like the convenient answer without looking too hard. GP runs blood tests, all seems normal and that’s that (this has been going on years).
Symptoms seem like thyroid and / or b12 deficiency but results in normal range on multiple tests.
Over the last few years I’ve had issues with my hands getting weaker - can’t open jars, bottles and struggle with things like gripping very thin things. I’m always dropping things / knocking things down. DH jokes that I’m just really clumsy.
Yesterday morning I dropped a cup of coffee all over myself and the sofa. I had just realised we were late so maybe I wasn’t concentrating that hard? I don’t know. Then last night I dropped I full glass of drink all over myself while sitting on the sofa. I picked it up and thought I had a good grip and then it was all over me. It’s not like I felt my hand give way or anything - it’s more like my brain misunderstands the amount of grip I need.
DH reckons it’s just that I’m not concentrating on what I’m doing - but really how much do other people have to concentrate on not dropping a cup? I can’t tell any more if this is weird or I’m just a numptie!