Hi
Im a bit new to this but bare with me....
my daughter (E) did have a lovely play mate (A) who's mum i also got on really well with but a few issues started to arise...for example (A) wouldn't share and would pull my daughter about if she wasn't doing what (A) wanted. But they are 2.5 years old and you expect them to learn. A's mum would say to my daughter that she is dirty as she did want her face washed and tell Alice not to start copying her.
my daughter is quite sensitive and would say for ages 'mummy im not dirty am i?
or A hurt my arm etc
and i would have to explain it over and over again that it was an accident etc. and it takes a good few weeks for her to get over it.
A was going to be sent to a private school. I found a lovely nursery for my daughter to attend and was talking to (A's) mum about it and how im going to book my daughter into it. The afternoon that i said about the Nursery she went and booked A in and then said she is booking her in for different day to E so they have a better time...i also agreed this as they wouldn't make other friends.
i decided to put my daughter in 2 days and was telling A's mum this and she said she wanted the day that i was going to have and has more or less sulked and not spoken since.
how ever i have now tried to book the extra day, only to discover that A is now booked in every day.
I now do not know if i should uproot my daughter and find another nursery so that she doesn't spend the time being pulled about or see how it goes. The Nursery are aware of the situation and have said that they would keep an eye on it but given how long it takes her to get over it when she is pulled about, im not sure if i should risk it...or if it is a good way for her to toughen up??