My DF died yesterday. He is survived by my DM. He has a will and it states that me, my DM and DB are all trustees. He has some money in his own name.
Talking to my DM about the will yesterday DH asked her about what lawyer she would be using and she said she wouldn't be using one. Her attitude was that his money was now hers and she would do what she wanted with it.
Technically she is correct I guess but I think the proper process will need to be followed and that a lawyer needs to be appointed to manage things correctly as his estate is more than the threshold for the small estates process.
Are there any lawyers around that can spell out the correct procedures for me so I can try to explain it to my DM? Thanks.