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If you only spend like £50 on your weekly shop

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mindutopia · 01/08/2019 11:41

Can you tell me what sort of meals your family has (breakfast/lunch/dinner)?

We spend a lot more than that, but I don't think it's because we buy a lot of fancy foods (though that does include alcohol, cleaning supplies, toilet roll, etc.). We eat what I think is pretty normal food, but we also don't really buy food out (we pack breakfast & lunch every day for work, don't even get a coffee out, we both take our own coffee to work).

I'd like to get some ideas for how to reduce the cost of our weekly shop (family of 4, dh & I and 2 dc, who mostly eat school lunch except during the holidays one has a packed lunch), and I want to see what everyone else is making that isn't too expensive. Is there some magical trick I don't know about?

What do you have for breakfast, lunch, dinner? What snacks do you buy?

OP posts:
Youngandfree · 01/08/2019 13:05

I spend approximately that maybe although I’m in Ireland and I spend €60-70 so I think that’s £55-60
typical meals look like;
Asian salmon with rice or cous cous and veggies (green beans, broccoli
Spaghetti bolognese
Chicken Ciaccatore with pasta/rice or cous
Chicken and veggie stir fry with noodles
Sausage casserole
Spring chicken (nigella recipe)with rice
Vegetarian pasta (veggies and beans in a tomato sauce)
Roast chicken dinner with potatoes
Fishfingers with beans, potato’s and peas etc
Omlettes
Prawn/chicken fried rice
Bacon and lentil casserole ( I use the packs of cheap bacon bits for this)

My advice is create a good larder ( will be an outlay to begin with) of items like soy, ginger, garlic etc and bulk buy rice, pasta, cous cous etc. the only frozen veg I buy is peas. I buy only what I need as I meal plan.

I don’t buy them same thing every week as then I find I double up. I buy veggies that will go with 2/3 dinners each week. I buy what’s on offer as I shop in aldi/lidl
I DONT BUY Crisps, chocolates or juices.
Usually each week I will buy 2/3 variables like tea/coffee/toilet roll etc. again they are not needed every week.

I buy fruits like apples, oranges, bananas, grapes all the time
And then mango, strawberries, raspberries when on offer.
I buy a lot of eggs as they are great for brekkie and quick meals.
Cereals I buy own brand.

In Ireland there’s no school dinners so my dc have crackers, fruits, yoghurts, veggies and cooked meats for lunch.

I bring leftover dinner for lunch mostly and sometimes the kids do too.

Youngandfree · 01/08/2019 13:09

Forgot to say we are a family of 4

jennymanara · 01/08/2019 13:18

There are a lot of sites out there with cheap recipes. A lot of it is about eating like people used to eat. Cheap veg and fruit like frozen peas, cabbage and apples. We buy seasonal fruit and veg that is cheap. Berries, mangoes etc are expensive fruits.

For cleaning you only need washing up liquid and an all purpose cleaner. Use damp microfibre cloth to dust. For clothes just a cheap washing powder, and use a bit less than they recommend, recommended amounts are over generous. Cheap bar soap, family shampoo for toiletries. Things like hair and fabric conditioner used to be luxuries. Stain removers are only needed for stubborn stains. A lot can be removed just by bar soap.

PamelaTodd · 01/08/2019 13:42

Do you have the capacity to bulk buy? You can buy half a cow from a butcher and put it in the freezer. Buy staples like potatoes and rice by the sack load. Storage obviously is key. It might be a bit of a trek but only every three months or so.

Overseasmom100 · 01/08/2019 14:34

I DONT buy things like:

Kitchen roll - mop up with a sponge
Bathroom cleaner AND kitchen cleaner - use an all purpose one
Air freshner
Bubble bath or shower gel - just use soap
Polish - just use a cloth or baby wipes
Many diluted drinks - just 1 type
Much fresh veg - use frozen
Shampoo - we all use the same

Toooldtocareanymore · 01/08/2019 14:40

I do think often the online posters talking of feeding a family for less than 50 week are not talking of full days worth of meals. Even above other posters have said things like lunch is just sandwich or salad, but in my house sandwiches for 4, five days a week cost a fair amount , with cooked meats -even using left overs means buying a bigger chicken, or ham, or beef joint, tins of tuna, cheese, pickle, tomatoes, lettuce, eggs, cucumber, humus, mayo, tins of beans etc etc all going into the shopping. And that's before all the bread, pittas, wraps, crackers. I do buy a lot of these and freeze as I find kids have a habit of not wanting same thing two days in a row ,and shelf life is short. Plus we eat a lot of things like toasted pittas as a snack. Again I generally will buy the supermarket own brands as a lot cheaper. Also buy supermarket brand butter, honey and jam.

But if I gave the kids only a sandwich for lunch, they would be hungry again so usually there is yogurts, fruit, left over pasta, popcorn.

Breakfast I don't find so expensive as I always buy big boxes of own brand cereals, basic ones like tesco substitute Weetabix, shreddies, cornflakes, porridge during winter , and loaves of bread for toast and jam , they consider peanut butter on bagel with chopped banana for breakfast as a treat. Also make pancakes a fair bit at weekends, and will freeze a few extras- again for those mid afternoon snacks. My older dd not so good at eating in mornings so she's more likely to bring something with her when she leaves house, like yogurt and fruit. I make her a lot of smoothies using fruit from freezer. My dh will have eggs everyday for breakfast, but then eats less for lunch.

I don't buy a lot of juice more inclined to buy whatever fruit is on offer, but aside from that we'd usually have apples, bananas, pears - the kid sized ones in packs are often far cheaper just have two , I'd rather we have cereal, yogurt or toast with fruit for breakfast than a glass of juice. Its easier to do portion control, my 12 year old could drink a carton of juice on his own in a day if let loose.

I find to keep dinner costs down the freezer really is my best friend, I use a lot of Tesco brand frozen veg and find its far cheaper than fresh, and great in a hurry in the evenings, like last night I used their frozen stir fry veg to add to rice and chicken. I always look at what's included in the meat/fish offers then build a meal plan around that. Trying to have at least 2-3 meat free meals a week as well . We have one vegetarian so keep en eye out for veggie offers too. I will buy the bigger packs of meats and will batch cook at weekend and freeze - I usually have a two week meal plan rather than one, so I cut down on the cooking time during week, but less boring that eating same meals every week, as nothing worse than getting in from work late and having to face into prepping dinner. While I do this to save time, I do find the cost of our dinners has gone down.

Unlike op I'm lucky to have an aldi and lidl near me at work, so I do check what's on offer and will often pop in and arrive home with extras that go straight into freezer for next weeks meal plan. I find they also same me a fortune on the random stuff like tin foil, tea , coffee ,laundry products.

I used to do a lot of baking but when I looked at cost really it was costing far more than it costs to buy a few treats. I still do it because we all like it, and I like knowing what goes into our treats, but I don't kid myself its saving money.

jennymanara · 01/08/2019 14:45

I am always amazed at what some on here give kids for lunch. What is wrong with a cheese sandwich and a couple of apples? We buy wholemeal bread from ALDI and ready sliced emmantel cheese. About £2 for cheese, 50 p for loaf, and you can make about 8 sandwiches. So 2 days worth of sandwiches for everyone. We spend about £10 a week on lunches for 4.

burblife · 01/08/2019 14:50

Can you buy frozen veg rather than fresh? I find it much cheaper, obviously lasts longer and you just take out what you need so no waste.
Good ones to try are peppers, chopped onions, butternut squash or sweet potato chunks, spinach, mixed peas/sweet corn. They also do rice/grains mixed with veg in Morrison's, not sure about Tesco, which make a good side dish.

feelingverylazytoday · 01/08/2019 14:58

All those things that Tooold listed for sandwiches are very nice, but not necessary if you have to budget. You can buy things like meat paste and cream cheese very cheaply and make your own houmous.

Pantolilies · 01/08/2019 15:01

bwydda which fruits are you buying for a fiver and where? A box of strawberries alone is £3 at my big Tesco.

babasaclover · 01/08/2019 15:04

I've found that Costco is good for bulk. Their own brand Kirkland toilet paper and kitchen roll seem expensive but they last so long it's worth the outlay. They do free delivery too for some items

Youngandfree · 01/08/2019 15:12

This is a typical weekly shop for me. I had some bits and pieces already in my freezer/larder for the meal plan I had set. Like I said if you bulk buy some things and have a well stocked larder then it can work
This equates to about 57 pounds I think. I would budget 70€ for us per week normally.

If you only spend like £50 on your weekly shop
bwydda · 01/08/2019 15:20

@Pantolilies my greengrocer does a box for £5- usually 7/8 bananas, 15 apples, 10 clementines and 10 pears - but last week we had no pears and a whole watermelon instead. As I said, it's not an exciting week of food when you have to budget, and usually I spend £80/90 if I want alcohol, exotic fruit and berries, nuts and treats. But I CAN keep it under £50 if really needed.

Ijustwanttoretire · 01/08/2019 15:34

I work long hours with a long commute and weekends are busy.

In that case you are prioritising the cost of your time over saving on the food - which is fine - because of where you live it doesn't look like you can do both, so you need to decide which is more important. Could you, say once a month, grit your teeth and spend a Saturday going to B&M, Lidl, Aldi or wherever to stock up on all non perishables and freezer stuff? Lidl meat is good and cheap - we buy whole pigs/lambs from a local farm. That way only the perishables would have to come from Tesco?

BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz · 01/08/2019 15:39

I don't buy a lot of cleaning products-

  1. Laundry powder or capsules depending on which is cheapest cost per wash
  2. Dishwasher tabs cheapest per wash
  3. I have a stack of cloths and I use hot water for general wipe downs and hot water/washing up liquid mix for proper cleans.
  4. A bottle of loo cleaner again, cheapest.
  5. Bin bags.

That's it.

theneverendinglaundry · 01/08/2019 15:47

Snacks and booze are the expensive culprits for us.

There are 5 of us, I usually spend around £60 on the weekly delivery and then £20-40 on top ups.

I meal plan for dinners, and try to eat veggie as it's cheaper.

EileenAlanna · 01/08/2019 15:59

There are a few online pound shops. There's a smallish delivery charge but if you order enough then it's still very economical compared with the alternatives. Check the items from Aldi online that you can use - their alcohol is brilliantly priced & multi award winning & I think free delivery over something like £20 spend.
I'll give a special shout out to Tesco own brand cornflakes - 75p for a kilo box. Nicest cornflakes around imo.
I buy from pound shops irl, as well as the cheap fruit & veg market & reduced items in supermarkets. I've the time to do it though & not everyone has that opportunity.
www.poundshop.com/

ipswichwitch · 01/08/2019 16:01

I’ve sussed out when the bulk of the reduced stuff comes out in Tesco and I go shopping then. Sometimes I don’t get much other than bread (eg12p for a large baguette), but other weeks I get loads of reduced meat, typically £1.25 ish for steak mince, and i got beef sriracha strips for 98p the other week. I have an idea of the sorts of meals I’ll do for the next few days, and get accompaniments to go with whatever bargains i get.

Pgjp129 · 01/08/2019 16:05

There are 3 of us and in total we spend around 55 a week, including cleaning/laundry/toiletries. We buy frozen fish and veg, fresh fruit (cheapest own brand value). Store cupboard items (tinned Tom's, beans etc) are value. We buy meat from a good value butcher once a month and spend around 20 there too. We eat well and I make most of my sauces from scratch. We do buy beer and wine but that is woth our budget. We dont go without treats and snacks.

Morgan12 · 01/08/2019 16:15

We eat alot of chicken so I buy from Musclefood. Their wonky chicken is £9 for 2.5kg. And it's much nicer than supermarkets.

Fruit wise we stick to apples, pears, bananas and tangerines.

I get Asda brand cereal. It tastes the same (except corn flakes, Kellogg's is better.)

We probably spend about £250-£300 a month. I can't see any way to get that down really but don't think it's that bad.

Grasspigeons · 01/08/2019 16:32

We spend more than £50 a week for four of us. Im sure a lot of people forget they have take out every friday, or the kids have school dinners, or their DH uses the works canteen. And i think some people forget they popped put midweeek to pick up extra bread, milk and a tin of soup.
I know some people have no choice but to spend the minimum possible but isnt £50 a week just 60p per person per meal (and any drinks snacks and toiletries on top)

TinklyLittleLaugh · 01/08/2019 16:48

I meal plan
Aldi is massively cheaper, though supermarket value ranges are not too bad
We eat meat four times a week, fish once
I don’t buy expensive fruit or cleaning stuff or breakfast cereal or soft drinks or crisps or biscuits.

I don’t buy much processed stuff and cook a lot from scratch
I do the odd expensive meal but mix it up with cheap ones; so a nice roast then soup from the carcass and leftovers, salmon one day but the a cheap frittata the next.

Youngandfree · 01/08/2019 16:57

@Grasspigeons no canteen for me or dh. And as stated above no school meals in Ireland either. I don’t take into account whenever we eat out (it’s not weekly either) as that is a separate ‘eat out’ budget. I think 50 is a bit too low also but I do think 60 is more doable for sure!!

Grasspigeons · 01/08/2019 17:01

But £60 is quite a big % more. Isnt £10 20% of 50. My maths brain is fried.

Binforky · 01/08/2019 17:01

We do but its not really out of choice. Money is ridiculously tight at the moment but we all eat the same thing lots of pasta and rice based meals. No alchohol or nice drinks no treats. Its pretty depressing to be honest. Now it's the holidays the kids have eaten nearly everything and I have 6 days before I can afford more so it's a bit of a stress too.

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