Sex drive

[Jan664]

My partner has no sex drive I've tried talking about several times. Said he just doesn't want to anymore. Is this normal?

Yes it's a difficult decision and it needs confidence to leave and set up on your own I expect its as I've been advised you either just put up and shut up or take the risk for potentially something better .

I'm your partner (obviously I'm not, but i am in terms of I don't have much of a libido which is mismatched in my relationship).

What hacks me off in these threads is that there's a presumption something is wrong and needs 'fixing'. Theres nothing wrong with me, I just don't want sex. And neither does your partner. It's not about you, as in him not loving or fancying you, it's about not wanting sex. And if his desire for sex doesn't match yours then you have to ask if the relationship is worth it and if it isn't, walk away.

I can see you point but it's not like I'm a sex maniac its just that I thought sex was a normal.part of a loving relationship otherwise it's just a friendship