Last day of term. Been a hard year and possibly no job next year after October half term.
Husband is freelance so doesn’t get the additional pressure of working day and day out. Possibly I don’t appreciate fully the difficulties of going to a new job every few weeks.He is currently is on holiday but gave me a lift to work despite it being way earlier than he would normally get up an early a good stretch away.
So have been talking about end of term for a while and going for a meal either lunch or dinner on the last day to celebrate. Today is the last day and he has had gone to work. However he volunteered. It’s ok for a local organisation he supports; non paid and no one asked him.
No lunch or dinner plans with me. I went out on my own ad hoc and friends texted him to say where I was. He has not replied to them and no message to me.
So I am cross with him or not? He gave me a lift which was a big ask But has ignored me despite knowing I want to celebrate the end of an era ( and a beautiful evening) .He will however get much appreciation fom his mates m whose job he’s covering.
How much would you compromise?
Ignore discuss or be cross.?