Ex advice

[suziem72]

Recently separated and child sleeps at dads 1-2 nights per week, suspected he was having affair with childs best friends mother but both said they were only friends, child already has mental health issues. requested that ex and lady friend didnt sleep in ex family home as might upset and confuse child. Found out a bedroom has been done for lady friends child and they slept together in room next door to my son, they appear to be moving in. It has been less than 2 month since we moved out. i am worried for my 7 yr old sons mental health, as is so confusing. what do I do?

Unfortunately I don’t think there is much you can do in terms of DS’s father. He is within his rights to live with who he chooses. Without sounding horrible... Is this going to be a big issue for your son, or do you think it’s you that feels more uncomfortable about it?

Irritated by their lies however their relationship doesnt bother me. He has physically, mentally and tried to control me, even now I am living in my own home. I am concerned for son who is already struggling with Emotional dysregulation, I understand he needs to see his dad, but seeing his best friend and mother take over what was his life is hard. he wants me and him back there again which isnt obv going to happen

Ohh and a 2nd time adultetor, I feel they are selfish and are not considering either kids under the circumstances, his access time with child is leaving him to play by himself or friend while he spends it with female