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Does anyone else suffer from horrible intrusive thoughts?

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Ohnotanothernamechange · 20/06/2019 18:48

Ive suffered with them for years, they usually involve awful things happening to those close to me and I think are probably linked with my anxiety. Recently my anxiety has been at its lowest levels in ages and life is really good. Then all of a sudden and totally out of the blue this evening I get a really horrible image in my head. It's completley knocked me off kilter and now I can feel my panic levels rising.

It's stupid and ridiculous and I know they are not real and just my mind playing tricks on me. But they are so upsetting and once I get them I struggle to get them out of my head for ages. I feel like my stupid brain is broken, and can't let me feel calm for whatever reason.

Does anyone have any advice for dealing with this? Is there a way I can stop them.

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Aneta1 · 21/06/2019 23:14

These are the steps that help me with anxiety. They are all about staying in the present moment.
Meditation (Jon Kabat Zinn) at least once a day, every day, forever
Emotional Freedom Technique-Brad Yates has plenty of YouTube videos on tapping also on intrusive thoughts. Best in emergency situations.
Laughter Yoga-Bianca Spears on YT as often as possible.
Lectures of Eckhart Tolle and Michael A Singer

I don't fight my thoughts, just notice them and bring attention to the present moment.
I also accept the fear and what feels like negative energy and observe it without judging or getting involved. Same with thoughts-I don't engage in a 'conversation' with them. Story is a momentum of an egoic mind. It will try to draw you in.

Hope that helps

Aneta

Aneta1 · 21/06/2019 23:57

When untrained mind has nothing to worry about it makes something up!
It tries to explain fear and creates a story.

SuperPixie247 · 22/06/2019 06:14

Yes. I suffer awful intrusive thoughts - mainly around me committing suicide. When they are bad, they are awful and I can't go near bridges, train tracks etc.

My psychiatrist has diagnosed me with OCD (no, my house is not super spotless, no, not all my pencils are sharpened to the same length) it just means that I obsess over the thought.

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