DS10 has just tried to rescue a lovely, fuzzy bumblebee. It was lying on the pavement, still alive so he scooped it up and put it in the garden, next to a puddle of sugary water. It became clear shortly after that it had no sting and died within a few minutes (RIP little fuzz all).
I explained to DS that it had died because it stung someone in Self defence. He looked slightly puzzled and asked why they bother stinging at all then, if they're going to die anyway? Do they know that they'll die if they sting someone, and if so how scared do they have to be before they'll actually sting?
I said I genuinely don't know, and DS said 'ask those mums-on-the-net if they know' 
So here I am, mum's-on-the-net. Any bee psychologists out there? Do bees know they're going to die when they sting someone? Please understand the gravity of this situation and advise as appropriate.