Some friendly advice plz. My ex and I have had a very complicated past. We separated and he can't handle this and has become very nasty. Since then he has done everything g he can to see our daughter ( she's 7) and contact her. He turns up outside the school, outside my house tells her to come outside. I have explained that I'm not doing that and he needs to communicate with me not our daughter about any arrangements he wants to make. He rang the night before asking to take her and his other children ( from a previous relationship) out but we had plans. Anyway when we got home I let him know we were home if he wanted to see her as she had a card for fathers day for him. He turns up and takes her out ( without saying anything to me). When she returned 2 hours later, she was in tears. He said to me " either you sort her out or I will, she's ruined it for everyone!" Every time he takes our daughter out he takes her with his other children. The 2 girls always end up fighting or arguing and she always comes back upset and in floods of tears that I have to deal with. I have since said he is to see her without the other children for now because it's not doing anyone any favours. He thinks I'm isolating her ( may I add he made her sit right at the back of the people Carrier and every one in the front due to her having a tantrum with the other child). Am I wrong. The mother of the other children is not aware that they are seeing each other and she has said she does not want them mixing. Also my ex has only been back in our daughter life the last nearly 2 years after being aware for 3 and a half years, he hardly pays attention unless we have a disagreement and never Pays anything towards her.