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Lucafritz · 10/06/2019 19:42

Hi
I've just found out im Pregnant and its my ex partner's who has Drug/Violence issues. Ive told him i don't want him in mine or my babies life unless he is fully supervised at either a family contact centre or in my own home because of these issues but he completely flew of the handle when i said this and threatened to report me to social services and he'd gain full custody that way just to spite meHmm surely he can't just phone Social services like that and claim I'm insane or whatever and get full custody ? He's scaring me and stressing me out even though ive now blocked him on every platform i don't know what to do next...

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ZigZagIntoTheBlue · 10/06/2019 19:46

I think first things first, tell your midwife and have it in your notes so he can't try to gain access to you during delivery etc.
And from what I understand on here, don't name him on the birth certificate!
Good luck and congratulations on your pregnancy

Lucafritz · 10/06/2019 19:52

So without him been named on the certificate or having a DNA test done he has no parental rights ? What would happen if he were to call social services ? My house is immaculate i have a great support network and work full time i can't think of anything that would make me an unfit parent apart from letting a dangerous drug addict around my child which im preventing

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