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Bit of backgorund DB(33) and SIL(41) started TTC 2 years ago. SIL has a DS(10) from her previous marriage, had serveral MC before and after DS. I know my DB would love to have DC of his own and SIL has been feeling the pressure as she would also love another and give DS a sibling.
She is has been on AD for years and tried to change her meds as she shouldn't take them if TTC. After going through a long and stressful process of coming off and starting new meds her MH took a turn for the worse so she switched back to the meds that were helping her. This has now kind of put a stop on the idea that they might have a DC together.
Since having my DD I can see how they are with her and it can be painful sometimes for them to see my DD knowing they won't be able to share the joy of having their own DC and it has sometimes meant they don't want to see DD as it causes some upset.
Anyway I've been thinking about offering to be a surrogate for them as I have had a fairly easy pregnancy with DD and quite enjoyed it. DH and I are certain we don't want anymore childern as we have 3 between us (DD and 2 DSS)
I have told one person IRL about this but would like to hear from anybody who has been through this
I have no idea where to start, I would obviously need to speak to DH as it would have a huge impact of our lives, how would I go about raising it with DB and SIL, they haven't asked or even mentioned using a surrogate but I don't know if it's just something they haven't/won't even considered.
Sorry for the ramble I have been thinking about this for so long I have so many questions
Thanks for reading