AIBU? My BF (boyfriend) and I have lived together in a council house for just over 3 years, but I have stayed here for a lot longer. He is not British. He has a brother who over the time we have been together, decides to uproot from his home country and come here to get a job. We have supported this every time, although becoming wearing and stressful. The brother rarely lasts weeks in this country, but my BF goes out of his way and finds him somewhere to stay, a job and the last time bought him a car. (The whole thing of the brother coming here to make cash is laughable). The brother messes up constantly. He came over here last Thursday, had a place to stay a job, did one shift and was told not to come back. He is now under my roof. Already thinking about a flight home (which will be funded by my BF). But BF is trying to look for a job, somewhere for him to stay , oh and again a car!!??! AIBU??? To say get him to fuck? The brother brings nothing to the table. NOTHING. I have a 19 year old son that lives with us( and always has) BF not happy to contribute for him, and says my son is lazy, and hasn't got a job. But least he's not jumping on a plane for nothing and getting everything for free! I cant live with the brother here, he brings a cloud of heaviness with him and has been treated for depression, But I can see how stressed my BF is about the whole situation, and he says that he is family and has to support him. But he fucks up every single time and costs money, and now I think he is going to cost me my relationship.