When I had my third child the first year went soo fast. That now I feel I didn't give her the same as the boys. I didn't take her to mother and toddler groups or swimming. I took her first video when she was 4 months old. I took half the amount of photos in her first year and I'm not in any in her 3 4 and 7 month and only a few in between. Now my friends are all having baby's they are aways in the photos with there kids. And it makes me a little sad I'm not in them. But the little I do have i cherish so much But I never thought about it before. And now I feel like I'm the only mum with no photos or videos of her child in there first year. Am I.