Dh is a good man and kind in ways. In other ways tight with money and careful about things in general. Slow to complete things. He relies on me to do a lot and cook and think of all the stuff with dc. Even in the evening he asks am I hungry and it is a hint for me to rustle up something. I have started to withdraw from him. Stay in the bedroom so he has to think what dc will eat (I cook a meal earlier in the evening) we both teach so home 4 ish.
I just prefer being alone. Also unless I think of things to do we never do anything. Life is pretty mundane. He asked me last night did I love him anymore (I was crying). I didn't say no I just said things have to change but today they are the exact same. He said we should be grateful for healthy dc and just get on with it.