Know this has been covered a lot on here but would appreciate any advice and maybe getting some perspective and getting it out. My PIL Visit from abroad a few times a year and are nice people who want to help but my mil can be quite moody. She almost goes from one extreme to the other - very nice and polite or sulky and cross! I have learnt to try and ignore the bad and focus on the good but not always easy. I also find after a few days I feel a bit invaded as in she starts doing lots of housework, washing and ironing which is really nice but I suppose I feel a bit guilty. They never go anywhere outside the house without us and stay for two weeks. What can I do/ think to get a bit of mental space during the visits?