Is their a name for this weird behaviour?

[CallyMollyMindy]

Recently separated but trying to be on good terms. However I've noticed this behaviour and think wtf
I went out last week and he offered me a lift. whilst in the car he went on and on about what a nice person he is giving me a lift and how tired he is.

He was going somewhere I have a free parking pass for and I offered it to him. He starts saying no thanks you know what you're like about things like that. When I asked him what he meant he said oh you know

Bloody weirdo

He sounds like a Martyr.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Martyr_complex

When we were together he'd always say oh you know what you're like you'll kick off. I didn't care enough to kick off

He's trying to mess with your head and succeeding. He's playing the victim. He can say to others that he gave you a lift when he was really tired after work and you didn't pay for parking (even though you offered and he refused). Ignore.

Next time I'll be paying for a taxi

you know what you're like about things like that

Messing with your head. Because he's hoping you'll go mad and this prove his fictional point. My ex was king of that.

Yep he is trying to wrong foot you so that he is your "victim" and you are "wrong/nasty"

Paraphrasing -He gave you a lift despite being exhausted and you were ungrateful and didnt pay for parking . What a nasty person you are
Dont accept lifts or favours , keep him at arms length.

Oh I hate this 'I'm such a nice guy' narrative.

Most often trotted out, at length, repeatedly, by guys who actually, aren't that nice at all.

I used to be so tense when we were together. I always felt like I wasn't doing enough and couldn't sit down. Now I sit on my arse loads and I love it

he's told his family I'm awful too. He was a prick to me when I had PND