Received a message from a man I've known for 12 years. We have always have a "thing" but never actually slept with each other. He moved to the other side of the world about 5/6 years ago. Over those years had about maybe 1 or 2 message conversations. He randomly messaged me last night saying he is back in England for a month and would be good to catch up over a drink. He asked where abouts I was living now and I told him and he said he could come to my area, although I'm not far from where he is. I suggested the city because I don't want him thinking he can come to mine! Shall I go or do you think he is trying his luck and trying to get more from me? I don't get why he would want to meet up again if he is intending to go back to the other side of the world.