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Quick. Help me find a way to tell dp our news.

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WheresAllTheGoodInTheWorld · 17/05/2019 18:38

Found out today I'm pregnant. I had a MC 4 weeks ago. Had 2 weeks of neg tests and today a positive, followed by many more tests lol.
Ds is going to his dad's in a bit. Toddler asleep. So we're getting take away anyway. Was thinking to put the tests in a clear bag and tie them up. Then wheb I collect his kebab is put it facing outward between the polysyrine pack and newspaper? Or is that disgusting lol
My head is everywhere and not thinking straight.

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ShakeYourTailFeathers · 17/05/2019 18:40

yeah don't put your wee anywhere near his dinnner Grin

Um... have you got a bun? Could you put it in the oven for him to find?

Mrsemcgregor · 17/05/2019 18:41

I have no idea, but congratulations!!!

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WheresAllTheGoodInTheWorld · 17/05/2019 18:41

No I haven't got a bun. And he wouldn't go in the oven if getting takeaway. He'd think I'm a nutter if I asked him lol

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Pipandmum · 17/05/2019 18:42

Um kinda gross. And I know you are thrilled but I think I’d wait a few weeks. Just enjoy the news the two of you first.

Pipandmum · 17/05/2019 18:43

Oh wait I see it’s your husband! For some reason I read it as his dad you were going to tell! Doh!

HollowTalk · 17/05/2019 18:43

I don't understand, OP. If you had a MC four weeks ago then how could you be testing two weeks later?

Ragwort · 17/05/2019 18:43

Just tell him, the news itself will surely be exciting enough without having to make an event out of it?

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WheresAllTheGoodInTheWorld · 17/05/2019 18:43

I'm not telling anyone but need to tell him. Trying to think of a way other than. BTW I'm pregnant lol.
Yeah it's gross. I won't do that I promise.

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ReganSomerset · 17/05/2019 18:44

Do a scavenger hunt.

Whisky2014 · 17/05/2019 18:44

Id ask him if he wants a drink to celebrate. When he says "celebrate what?" You show him the sticks! Nice and easy

Al2O3 · 17/05/2019 18:46

As long as the polystyrene box is recyclable and you recycle it and the newspaper is not the Mail, Express or Sun, your suggestion is very, very good.

And informative. I didn't know it was possible to get pregnant so soon after an 'MC' (not the military cross I now assume).

But good stuff and enjoy the evening.

Dollywilde · 17/05/2019 18:46

I read one on here once where the poster was in the kitchen and asked her DH to get her a fork from the drawer and the test was in the cutlery tray (with the cap on!) which I always thought was quite cute! Might not work if he’s having a kebab tho!

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WheresAllTheGoodInTheWorld · 17/05/2019 18:47

I started to bleed 4 weeks ago. It was over very quick. Had a neg test a week later but still kept testing for a further week. Don't ask. My head was messed and I didn't want to belive it. Despite gp also checking and Co firming that pregnancy was no longer.
Today I just felt the urge to do a test as I have very tender breasts. And a second line showed. Because its a blue dye, I was advised to try a FR. And within seconds it was positive.. And many more after that.

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WheresAllTheGoodInTheWorld · 17/05/2019 18:50

I didn't realise it could happen do soon either. The doc said expect a period withing 6 weeks roughly. But nothing to say it can't happen straight away.
I'd never of believed it as on previous threads. I had to have treatment to have ds and dd for pcos an endo . Altho I was told that after childbirth, conceiving could be easier. Dd is just over a year. I can't get my head round it all to be honest an it's Friday eve so can't even chat with GP

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AhhhHereItGoes · 17/05/2019 18:53

Do you usually drink?
Could you not say when he hands you a glass of wine "Oh no sorry I can't, it's not very good for a developing baby."

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WheresAllTheGoodInTheWorld · 17/05/2019 18:54

Nope neither of us drink. Maybe hide the tests in his lounge wear for after his shower

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WinkyisbackontheButterBeer · 17/05/2019 18:58

Could you get the felt tips to one of dd’s plain vests and make her a ‘big sister’ T-shirt. Then ask him to change her for bed.

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WheresAllTheGoodInTheWorld · 17/05/2019 18:59

Shes already asleep. Think whne he goes for shower ill hide the tests in between his pj's

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Honeybee85 · 17/05/2019 19:01

Wrap the test in gift paper and give it to him after dinner. Tell him: a special present for a really good start of your weekend.

HollowTalk · 18/05/2019 11:23

I'm sorry, OP, I still don't understand. Are you saying the miscarriage wasn't a miscarriage?

HotChocolateLover · 18/05/2019 22:06

How did it go?

spreadingchestnuttree · 18/05/2019 22:10

Honestly? I think it's slightly confusing/surprising news so soon after a MC so tell him in a straightforward way, don't turn it into a game. Good luck though!

nighttimethoughts · 18/05/2019 22:18

Honestly OP personally I'd wait for a while until you can confirm this pregnancy is viable due to the recent miscarriage. I know that's hard to hear but I'd keep it to myself for a while.

AnyFucker · 18/05/2019 22:23

I am a bit confused by the timeline here

AndOutComeTheBoobs · 18/05/2019 22:29

AnyFucker presumably the OP ovulated 10-14 days after the MMC, and 4 weeks later BFP

that's how I understood it