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Wow, I just can't comprehend these comments

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allflownthenest · 17/05/2019 10:49

Just this really
www.instagram.com/p/Bxh6-7WHQsP/

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InglouriousBasterd · 17/05/2019 10:53

It’s horrifying isn’t it? Saddens and worries me.

PerkingFine · 17/05/2019 10:54

Not opening link til you tell us what it is!

RiversDisguise · 17/05/2019 10:55

Pro rape shite from America.

UrsulaPandress · 17/05/2019 10:55

Dear fucking god.

InglouriousBasterd · 17/05/2019 11:07

Anyone who doesn’t have Instagram!

Wow, I just can't comprehend these comments
FiremanKing · 17/05/2019 11:09

Guilty of stupidity -

On 24 March 1990, Texas oilman Clayton Williams, the Republican nominee in the Lone Star State’s upcoming gubernatorial election, was preparing for a cattle roundup at his West Texas ranch while undesirable weather conditions threatened to spoil the event. As he sat around a campfire with ranch hands, campaign workers, and reporters, Williams likened that day’s cold, foggy weather to rape, saying, “If it’s inevitable, just relax and enjoy it.”

Later that day Williams asserted that his comment had been a joke, and a few days later his campaign offered an apologetic statement about it:

Mr. Williams said it was merely a joke and apologized “if anyone’s offended.”

“That’s not a Republican women’s club that we were having this morning,” he said. “It’s a working cow camp, a tough world where you can get kicked in the testicles if you’re not careful.”

Asked if some people might be offended, Mr. Williams said: “I’m not going to give you a serious answer. It wasn’t a serious deal. It wasn’t a serious statement.”

But his campaign issued a statement in which Mr. Williams said: “I feel just terrible about this. I had no intention in my heart to hurt anyone, especially those women who have been traumatized by rape.

“Looking back, I realize it was insensitive and had no place at the campfire or in any setting.”

MonsterChopz · 17/05/2019 11:11

Blows my mind that these people are walking the earth.

FiremanKing · 17/05/2019 11:13

Rape victims should make the best of a bad situation.”

On 20 January 2012, Rick Santorum, a former U.S. Senator from Pennsylvania who was then campaigning for the Republican presidential nomination, appeared on CNN’s Piers Morgan Tonight program and was asked by that show’s host about his stance on abortion and whether he believed abortion was wrong even in cases of incest and rape. Santorum responded by saying that although a pregnancy resulting from a rape might be “horrible,” it was nonetheless a “gift of human life” and that “we have to make the best out of a bad situation”:

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Whether you agree with it or not his comment taken at face value isn’t about the actual rape it actually refers to a victim being pregnant after rape.

FiremanKing · 17/05/2019 11:14

Badly worded rather than any malicious intent -

In the emergency room they have what’s called rape kits, where a woman can get cleaned out.”

On 23 June 2013, Jodie Laubenberg, a Republican member of the Texas House of Representatives, was debating a measure she had introduced to the House that included a ban on abortions after 20 weeks of pregnancy. When Rep. Senfronia Thompson proposed an exemption for victims of rape and incest, Laubenberg argued against that exemption, saying that when a victim seeks medical care after a rape, “they have what’s called rape kits, that the woman can get cleaned out, basically like” [a procedure known as D and C that is often performed after a miscarriage]. She also noted that emergency contraception is available.

A few days later, after she was mocked over her remark, Laubenberg said she was “confused by Democrats’ questions and misspoke” and meant to say that rape victims could “obtain emergency contraception and other treatment” at medical facilities:

Rape kits are used to collect evidence in hopes of prosecuting the perpetrator. They play no role in preventing pregnancy or serving as an abortion.

Laubenberg was widely mocked on social media, and opponents of the bill called her comments evidence of the misguided science behind Laubenberg’s proposal.

Laubenberg told North Texas talk radio host Mark Davis that she was momentarily confused by Democrats’ questions and misspoke. “What I was trying to say is, when a woman goes to the hospital, that they have the procedures there” to help her obtain emergency contraception and other treatment, she said. “No, rape kits do not cause an abortion.” As for the reaction, Laubenberg added: “If that’s the worst that you can complain about me, go ahead.”

FiremanKing · 17/05/2019 11:16

If a woman has (the right to an abortion), why shouldn’t a man be free to use his superior strength to force himself on a woman? At least the rapist’s pursuit of sexual freedom doesn’t (in most cases) result in anyone’s death.”

In February 2014, the Maine Democratic Party called for the resignation of Lawrence Lockman, a Republican member of the Maine House of Representatives, when a liberal activist made a blog post detailing negative public statements about gays, abortion and rape that Lockman had made years earlier:

The post by Maine People’s Alliance activist Mike Tipping mined press clippings to unearth several offensive comments. In one, Lockman implied that HIV and AIDS could be spread by bed sheets and mosquitoes. In another, he said that the progressive movement assisted the AIDS epidemic by assuring “the public that the practice of sodomy is a legitimate alternative lifestyle, rather than a perverted and depraved crime against humanity.” In a 1995 letter in the Sun Journal in Lewiston, a reader quoted a press statement by Lockman, then part of the Pro Life Education Association, saying, “If a woman has (the right to an abortion), why shouldn’t a man be free to use his superior strength to force himself on a woman? At least the rapist’s pursuit of sexual freedom doesn’t (in most cases) result in anyone’s death.”
Lockman responded to the controversy by issuing a statement affirming that he regretted his previous remarks:

Most of the comments were made during the 1980s and 1990s, but Maine Democratic Party chairman Ben Grant issued a statement calling for Lockman’s resignation. Grant said the comments were “hateful, vicious and offensive” and he called Lockman a “disturbed individual who holds some of the most abhorrent beliefs ever heard from a public official in Maine.”

Lockman released a written statement.

“I have always been passionate about my beliefs, and years ago I said things that I regret. I hold no animosity toward anyone by virtue of their gender or sexual orientation, and today I am focused on ensuring freedom and economic prosperity for all Mainers,” he said.

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We can all agree that is extremely disturbing no matter when he said it.

FiremanKing · 17/05/2019 11:16

My posts are to clarify that not all comments should be taken at face value and that they should be read in the context of when they were spoken.

BunnyJumps · 17/05/2019 11:24

I am stunned by these comments and wonder if they would stand by them if they were, themselves, raped by a man.

StormTreader · 17/05/2019 11:30

"I am stunned by these comments and wonder if they would stand by them if they were, themselves, raped by a man."

Indeed, maybe if they were raped then it should be dismissed by all parties as "just one of those things", since there was no risk of them becoming pregnant so no reason for them to not just "relax and enjoy it" (god I feel sick at even typing those words).

Ginlinessisnexttogodliness · 17/05/2019 11:30

Sadly I’m not surprised
Look at who is their President. These views will always exist and their proponents will try to “contextualise” or justify themselves. Thanks to Trump more and more of them come trundling out and force these nightmarish laws through. Or lobby for them.
It doesn’t seem to be confined to the men either. Some of these raging Reoublicsn Wimen hate other women more than their misogynistic male colleagues.

In all these people’s eyes women have no intrinsic worth.

Ginlinessisnexttogodliness · 17/05/2019 11:31

*Republican Women not that twaddle. Wimen makes me sound like I myself are from Alabama 🙄

ManchesterBorn · 17/05/2019 12:17

I'd love to know what they mean by "make the most of a bad situation" huh?!?

Someone should remind these people that men get raped too. It might just as well happen to them or to their sons (clearly nothing to do with the abortion debate in itself, I get that).

Yabbers · 17/05/2019 12:34

“That’s not a Republican women’s club that we were having this morning,” he said. “It’s a working cow camp, a tough world where you can get kicked in the testicles if you’re not careful.”

May I be the first to offer to kick you in the testicles, Mr Williams?

My posts are to clarify that not all comments should be taken at face value and that they should be read in the context of when they were spoken.
If you need to “contextualise” these comments, that’s a worry in itself. There are very few contexts where these comments can be written off a misspeaking or taken in the wrong way. Nothing you’ve posted makes any of it any better.

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