Partner looking at another woman

[Nikki2ol6]

We have came on holiday with the kids and my partner keeps looking at another women who is here on her own with two young children. She looks quite young and slim and all that. But everytime we walk past he looks at her, like stares at her and I think he knows Iv seen him. He doesn’t seam to look at other girls walking around in bikinis and stuff just this one girl. We have been together almost 3 years now and have an 11 month old child. We are also engaged. Should I b worried it has upset me very much

Ask him why he finds her so fascinating.

I'd ask him what's he looking at!

I’d pull him up on it, it’s disrespectful to you most importantly, but also to her.
Makes my skin crawl when men do this when they’re with a woman.

Thank you everyone I will ask him about it as it’s really getting to me

Wouldn't bother me, do you never look at men who you think are attractive?

Tell him he looks like a letch, and to put his eyes back.

I would pull my partner up on it if I caught him doing it more than once. It’s fine to have a quick glance at attractive people but to be blatantly eyeing her up would make my blood boil. It’s so disrespectful to do it in front of you. I’m sure the woman won’t like to see him staring at her either. If I ever catch a man staring at me lots when I’m in my bikini it just makes me feel creeped out and I think they’re a perv

Ignore him and start checking out hot young men.

So he did it again as we walked past her and I said do you think she’s very interesting ? You keep looking at her every time we walk past or she close to us. He said no I was looking to see if her kid was ok... (yesterday an ambulance came and took her and her child to hospital) I said nooooo way!!!! This has been going on 3 days now. So now he’s In a huge mood. Told me to go out or else he will and will just see me at the airport on our way home and we can call it a day!!!

Hmmm... It didn't take much, did it? It looks like you're well rid.

It does indeed. Why the huge mood? I only asked a question which he knew he had been caught out by as he practically admitted he had been looking over but not at her...