year 9, so 14yo and dating! should I...?

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quietly have a word with the form tutor to make sure they don't sit next to each other in shared lessons? or do I just keep my nose out?

not to be mean, but to ensure they concentrate fully on lessons? wwyd?

Keep your nose out, what a bizarre thing to even think about.

The teacher will ensure that all pupils whether they are dating and sitting next to each other or not are paying attention.

No need to say anything.

No but I would be having a talk about consent etc if you haven't already.....

Op you will have a lot more to worry about than sitting together.
Say nothing teachers don't need to know who's dating who could you just imagine how embarrassing that would be for both of them.

Have talks about consent/respect/boundaries and all the important areas. Who sits next to whom is not the issue and I'm sure the teacher would be aware of the need for students to concentrate dating or otherwise.

ok thanks
yes of course, we are having lots of chats about consent, respect and boundaries, etc. It's all very early days (first date scheduled - daytime event) and might just fizzle out.... new phase in parenting! it's a minefield.