Ok, looking for opinions on this situation.
I'm 35, work as a nurse, I have a five year old Dd from a previous relationship, ex lives abroad and has zero contact. I have been single since my Dd was born. I currently rent but am planning to buy a flat very soon. (This may be relevant)
So, I have recently started to date a lovely guy. Been dating for about six weeks now, see eachother a few times a week. He is 38, never been married, no kids. He rarely drinks, doesn't smoke, works out, looks after himself, and is absolutely gorgeous looking. Sounds great right? However, this is my dilemma. He still lives with his parents, he sleeps in the same room he had as a child. He has spent the past twelve years working part time, cash in hand, driving a delivery van for a local builders suppliers. He borrows his parents car as he can't afford his own, he is obviously broke. He can't afford to move out of his parents house as rents here are crazy. So he lives in his parents house, with his 20 year old brother and 18 year old sister. He did live with a girl for a few years, but had to move back home when the relationship ended.
Im delusional aren't I ?.
To think this could work long term I mean. He has no prospects of ever being able to move to a place of his own, he has no ambition, when he isn't working he goes to the gym. No Idea what his parents think. They both work full time in very well paid jobs.
He's a man child isn't he? I mean he's lovely. And I sort of thought I could help him out to find a job and stuff. But he left school at 15, has no qualifications, no official work experience as he is cash in hand, and no way of moving forward.
Is there any point in even trying? Would any of you even consider this relationship?