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How long would you wait for a mate to turn up?

37 replies

TeacupTurtle · 10/05/2019 12:32

Made a firm date for lunch with a friend, it was confirmed this morning. They're now an hour late & no communication. How long would you hang around for before you give up?

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IHaveBrilloHair · 10/05/2019 14:23

Oh yes of course I'd be trying to contact them after about ten minutes, but if no word I'd still wait and keep trying.

MistyMinge · 10/05/2019 14:25

If they're usually reliable then I'd be starting to worry. I'd probably wait an hour max and then head off, but carry on trying to get hold of them.

Hope everything OK with your friend.

BlackCatSleeping · 10/05/2019 14:26

If there is something wrong with them then it’s unlikely they will show, so waiting around won’t help.

Still18atheart · 10/05/2019 14:27

Depends on the friend and where they are coming from and how

Still18atheart · 10/05/2019 14:27

But an hour is reasonable in most cases

Drogosnextwife · 10/05/2019 14:28

I would probably contact them to see if they were coming after 15 or 20 mins. If no reply I would have lunch and leave whenever I was finished.

Zoeputthatdown · 10/05/2019 14:29

Up to an hour without any word from them not "without me sending a text or whatsapp to them at some point".

BearSoFair · 10/05/2019 14:30

I'd probably text/call them at 15 minutes late to make sure things were ok, if they didn't reply I'd probably give it another 20-30 minutes then leave but I'd be more worried than annoyed until I knew what had happened.

rritchie44 · 10/05/2019 16:28

I wonder if the friend was sat waiting in another restaurant wondering where OP was.

SolitudeSometimesIs · 10/05/2019 17:16

15 mins and that’s my limit. I can’t stand time wasters.

TeacupTurtle · 10/05/2019 19:48

I called & got no answer. Turns out they were doing their hobby... Hmm We did finally get together in the end..

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IHaveBrilloHair · 10/05/2019 19:59

Oh, that's not on then.
What is the hobby?

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