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In a restaurant with a filled nappy...

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Shadowboy · 07/05/2019 11:58

I took my OH out yesterday for his birthday. It’s a restaurant with dress code and prices to match although children are very welcome.
The table we were at had another to my left, probably about 3/4’s of a metre away with a nice enough seeming family (one child in a high chair).
We had just received our main course when I noticed the horrific smell of a full nappy.
The wall was behind us so I realised it could only be said child to my left. After about 5 min the mother realised the nappy was full due to smell and said to her partner, I’ll change that once I’ve finished my steak.

About another 10-15 min later, said child was removed and smell disappeared. Now, it really did ruin our main as the smell was pretty overpowering. We finished our main during the time that nappy was full.

I didn’t say anything but should I have asked a waiter to ask them to change the nappy? It was a full 20 minutes that poor lad sat in his own waste. Or should we have asked for another table (that felt a bit drastic!) but I feel like a ‘posh’ birthday meal was made less pleasant by the lack or urgency of the people on the next table.

Maybe I’m just a bit miserable as it was the first meal out we’d had without our own kids for at least a year!

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Sparklingbrook · 07/05/2019 12:02

I would have probably asked to move table. That's just horrible.

Yourenotheonlycuddlytoy · 07/05/2019 12:02

Hmm. On one hand I would be pretty annoyed to have my meal spoilt by the smell of a nappy, so can easily agree with you.
On the other, as a mum, I can imagine not appreciating how it might affect others and waiting a while, because we become immune to nappy smells!
I would have changed him/her straight away if I’d had any inkling anyone else could smell it. And I probably would have even if no one else was around, I couldn’t enjoy my meal knowing i shortly had to contend with a poo.
In your shoes I would have been annoyed but not said anything. Just glared at them and sniffed loudly and said “WHAT is THAT?!”

Teddybear45 · 07/05/2019 12:08

In your situation I would have had a quiet word with a passing waiter and let them handle it. This does happen at posh and normal restaurants a lot and most parents are reasonable when the staff remind them there are other people eating too lol.

NeatFreakMama · 07/05/2019 12:19

I would have a slightly loud conversation with DH around ‘whats that smell’ and hope that did the trick Confused

CarolinaChina · 22/05/2019 21:04

I would’ve asked to move tables. Probably.

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