Anyone else getting less sociable the older they get

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On the surface I'm chatty and outgoing but I find I can cope less and less well with lots of chit chat and interaction and it seems to be getting worse
My job is people facing and pretty emotionally draining
I used to think I was an extrovert but I'm learning that I'm a bit of mix and I find I'm all "peopled" out more and more and will actively avoid social stuff as I find them quite draining
Not sure what I'm asking really just am I a miserable git or are there ways of maintaining a semblance of a social life whilst feeling like this

This thread is making me feel about 1000 times better. I did recently read the book about being an introvert in a world that won’t stop shouting, after someone pointed out I am an introvert. I had always thought I was extrovert because I love people and work I. A very people orientated role, but I do get so drained/ peopled out and am learning to pace myself. I definitely avoid small talk situations.

Me too. I’ve recently reconnected with old friends l knew at university. They love late nights, parties, meeting up for entire weekends.

I just want to meet up for coffee. Anything else horrifies me. But then l feel guilty.

I hate late nights. I just can’t sleep in, so prefer to go to bed at a normal time so not knackered the next day