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Selfishness

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numptysod · 03/05/2019 18:56

How long before you moved in with partner?

My partner wants me to move into his I don't want to wish to rent both places out and buy somewhere together!

DP lives on farm but doesn't do farming! 3/4 gf have moved to farm!
I live in town and wish to remain or move to a farm 50/50 compromise so a town in between my house and his farm!

We planned to move into mine and see how it goes, now it I'm not willing to move out of farm!

So feel strung along! Shock

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FiremanKing · 03/05/2019 18:59

I’m a bit confused.

He has 3/4 girlfriends living on the farm and wants you to join them?

That’s not a farm that’s a commune!

HollowTalk · 03/05/2019 19:02

You posted about this a few days ago, didn't you? If you don't want to live on a farm, why did you carry on with a bloke who does live on a farm and who has no intention of moving out? That could have been sorted before the first date!

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numptysod · 03/05/2019 19:05

DP has only just decided this! After 18 months!

He was happy literally planning travel new job house stuff extensions to live at mine with intention to possibly moving back with children if it happened! and now it blunt I’m not leaving farm! Quite dramatic change! And upsetting!

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numptysod · 03/05/2019 19:06

Previous 4 gf have moved into farm!
But none had their own places were all renting, whereas I have my own property and bought there as I wish to live there!

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HollowTalk · 03/05/2019 19:07

No, that's not quite right, is it? You posted about this relationship very recently.

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numptysod · 03/05/2019 19:09

I did but in completely in different context!

Farm was mentioned and to live apart! DP is now decided he doesn't wish to do this!

At present it fine? And we discussed it best way! Now he saying he wants to live together and be at his full time!
DP story seems to change, like I'm not getting 100% truth as he doesn't wish to rock the boat! But won't pull trigger and end it!

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FiremanKing · 03/05/2019 19:14

Are you in the UK?

Singlenotsingle · 03/05/2019 19:19

If he won't leave the farm and you don't want to move out of your place, there's no future in it, is there?

Moodyfoodie · 03/05/2019 19:32

We're any of the previous gf called Sharon?

Peachesandcream14 · 03/05/2019 19:37

@moodyfoodie Grin

FiremanKing · 03/05/2019 19:52

Are the other girls still there or have they been fed to the pigs/left?

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numptysod · 03/05/2019 19:54

Lol they don't have animals!

If DP wanted too once then maybe it will all settle down again! DP is stressed!

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YemenRoadYemen · 03/05/2019 20:48

Full stops are free.

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