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I’m a drunk

19 replies

OrangeSunsets · 03/05/2019 00:28

I need help. I can go weeks, days months without but i can’t stop when I start.
I open a bottle of wine then drink it. I have a few then don’t stop.
Does that make me an alcoholic?
I hate the thought of never been allowed to drink again. I can happily be designated driver but once I start I can’t stop.

OP posts:
raffle · 03/05/2019 00:36

If you can go months with no alcohol then drink one bottle then go months again without, then I don’t think you have anything to worry about.

MrsTerryPratchett · 03/05/2019 00:37

What's the most you drink in one session? Why do you go from nothing to that? What is your behaviour drunk?

Graphista · 03/05/2019 00:40

Sorry raffle but you're wrong. There is such a thing as a binge drinking alcoholic.

The issue isn't the periods op isn't drinking but that they can't control themselves when they do drink.

Binge drinking can also be dangerous physically even fatal.

Op well done for recognising you have a problem. Please get help ASAP.

There are many avenues and organisations, you could speak to your GP, go to AA, seek therapy...

OrangeSunsets · 03/05/2019 00:45

I have a problem. I have drunk about 3 bottles tonight. I am beyond help.

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OrangeSunsets · 03/05/2019 00:48

I live In a Muslim country. Drinking is accepted for expats. I am
3 hours ahead of the uk. I am drunk.
I can go without. I don’t crave alcohol. When I start I can’t stop

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MrsTerryPratchett · 03/05/2019 00:49

No one is beyond help. And you're feeling like that because alcohol is a depressant and you've had a massive dose.

Three bottles is 24 -30 units of alcohol. Which is a massive amount to binge and very bad for you.

Why do you drink sometimes? Could you talk to someone about it?

MrsTerryPratchett · 03/05/2019 00:50

I can go without. I don’t crave alcohol.

You are sober when you start to drink. You make the decision sober.

OrangeSunsets · 03/05/2019 00:50

I make a. Fool
Of myself.
I simply can’t stop
When I statt

OP posts:
OrangeSunsets · 03/05/2019 00:52

I always just want the one. Then I carry on

OP posts:
OrangeSunsets · 03/05/2019 00:53

I don’t wake up thinking of alcohol. I don.mt need it
To
Have a good time:
I start the can’t Stop

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MrsTerryPratchett · 03/05/2019 00:54

You can't have one. So you have to find a way to not have that one.

There is no point hashing it out while you've been drinking. Wake up tomorrow, start a new thread and talk about it honestly. There is online support.

MrsTommyBanks · 03/05/2019 00:55

You are not beyond help. But you are clearly not happy and want to change Your relationship with alcohol.
I've been where you are and I'm so grateful I'm out the other side now. It wasn't easy but it is so worth the effort.
You will have a community alcohol service. You can find it on Google, put in community alcohol service and your area.
If I can do it you can Flowers

Gizmo79 · 03/05/2019 00:55

Oh love. Just sleep tonight off. Have something to eat and if you have anyone around to check on you then go and have a snooze. Worry about your alcohol intake tomorrow when the hangover has kicked in.
Stay safe and have someone check on you.

Graphista · 03/05/2019 01:03

Op are you alone right now? I don't like to think of you alone having consumed so much alcohol, you need someone to keep an eye on you.

When you are sober again find the help you need.

MrsTommyBanks · 03/05/2019 01:05

Sorry OP just seen that you are not in UK.
In that case look for support online for now.
www.soberistas.com has been helpful to me.

OrangeSunsets · 03/05/2019 01:15

My DH is asleep in the spare room.
He can’t stand my snoring; sober or otherwise.
The telly do need help
Don’t I?
I really wanted you all to say it was fine.
It isn’t Fine.
I need help.

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Thisnamechanger · 03/05/2019 01:19

OP strangers on the internet are not qualified to help you with this. Go to your doctor.

SlipperOrchid · 03/05/2019 01:24

I don't have an answer but didn't want to read and run.

Go to bed for now. Sleep it off.

Do you drink alone or with others?
Are you happy with life generally? Perhaps look at what makes you yearn for that first drink?
But to answer, yes three bottles (on your own) is too much and not being able to stop after a certain amount signals a problem.

Ineweverything · 03/05/2019 01:27

Look up Club Soda.

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